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markeee
03-Apr-02, 07:34am
I fear I may be heading there...resistance is futile!

:e )

her name is...

miss apple
03-Apr-02, 08:28am
blech

Eskape
03-Apr-02, 08:49am
how long have u known her for?

yeah i think im following ur path markee

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 09:04am
i know someone is ;)
and it's all because of me :))

berniebern
03-Apr-02, 09:09am
DD ???

central_smurf
03-Apr-02, 09:16am
so nismor...this girl who is hopelessly in love with you...
have the feelings been recipricated, are you hopelessly in love with her?!

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 09:18am
i wouldnt call it hopeless... i'm an ever hopeful person :)

feeble
03-Apr-02, 09:24am
nah I'm just hopeless :P

central_smurf
03-Apr-02, 09:26am
then what would you call it?
so you think this girl is hopelessly in love with you?
i wouldnt say that...i would call it true love =)

markee...hang in there buddy, seriously good things come to those who wait, i am a living example

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 09:33am
it's hopeless.. you can't stop it :)

Debz
03-Apr-02, 09:34am
blech is a pretty cool name

MrClean
03-Apr-02, 09:38am
feeble lol. ps what up with yor email?

Eskape
03-Apr-02, 09:39am
go Blech!

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 09:46am
Too old to fall hopelessly in love at the drop of a hat.
Sumone has however sent me an I've got a crush on you thingy and I dunno who it is.
Is sumone playing twix on me?

k_pouts_x oxo

Bella
03-Apr-02, 09:46am
yes i am...

with my new converse sneaks with da springy laces!

robel stylee in full effect

bella :)

threelittlepigs
03-Apr-02, 09:53am
I am. She supposedly is too, but she has gone travelling overseas for a fucking year and I couldn't go because of my work. Devastated. Don't know what to do or think. Anyone been through this before?

ps. This should be common knowledge to all (me included) but never do pills when your emotions are fucked. Friends thought it would be a good idea to get me out over the weekend to get my mind off things and while I took about a quarter of my normal party dose, this has been the worst comedown I have ever experienced.

central_smurf
03-Apr-02, 09:53am
KRAFTY - the same thing happened to me... i was told by a certain someone when i told him that 'no one has crush on you, its just a way for that website to get email addresses!'

/me thinks its someone from itm playing a joke on us...not nice, i thought someone had a crush on me =(

feeble
03-Apr-02, 09:56am
clean- its feeble@inthemix.com.au

do you have some more soapstar porn for me?

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 10:00am
:lol: I thought it might be sunfink loike that but no-one has my email addy at werk.

k_x oxo

central_smurf
03-Apr-02, 10:01am
hmm....threelittlepigs, what are you talking about sweety, you have me confused?

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 10:02am
CS - no crush. it's well beyond a crush

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 10:12am
3lilpigs.

U R right.

k_x oxo

central_smurf
03-Apr-02, 10:15am
i know it is baby *mwah*

MrClean
03-Apr-02, 10:23am
kinda soap stars.. in a amuzing kinda way.. :P

Shif_T
03-Apr-02, 10:38am
pffft..wat r u doin markee? smack yerself oudda it sunshine..."love"...what a crock of @!#$...the only thing a man can truly love is beer...

Eskape
03-Apr-02, 10:40am
can you fall in love with someone after spending only four days with them? *sigh*
maybe it was just the pills yeah?
*sigh* again!


d(O_o)b

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 10:44am
And a woman shif_T.

k_luffs beer_x oxo

Eskape
03-Apr-02, 10:46am
shif_t
wait till you see me buddy

*jks*

Jiminy
03-Apr-02, 10:55am
So, Nismo and central smurf- yours seems to be a pretty fast moving relationship if you had never even met until after Valentine's Day this year

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 10:57am
Leave em alone Jiminy.

k_protects the young luvvers_x oxo

Shif_T
03-Apr-02, 10:58am
a woman in beer?

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 11:06am
jiminy - suck my beer.

Jiminy
03-Apr-02, 11:14am
I wasn't suggesting that it was a bad thing.

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 11:15am
The only thing a woman can truely luv is beer ya goose.

Although bathing in beer is a noice thought.

k_x oxo

skywalker
03-Apr-02, 11:19am
so markeee who is it?.......beXta??

Shif_T
03-Apr-02, 11:19am
i know what u meant...i was just wondering...a woman in beer? or a woman that bought me beer? is it asking too much?

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 11:32am
Shif_T - how bout a woman in a beer & another woman to bring u the beer with the woman in it?

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 11:34am
sorry guys i gotta say it.....

Fuzzy Wuzzy was a woman?

pH
03-Apr-02, 11:54am
love is hopeless

Beegie
03-Apr-02, 12:21pm
Isn't beer supposed to be good for your hair?

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 12:24pm
Korrekt Beegie.

BTW I would rather be hopefully in love.
If I were hopelessly in love I'd get over it and move on.

k_just a thought_x oxo

SPOKEYDOKEY
03-Apr-02, 12:28pm
i'm hopefully in love but fear it may be hopeless....what a terrible fucking situation

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 12:34pm
/me hugs spokes.

BTW folx. If I was I certainly wouldnt be shouting about it on here. :P

k_nows better_x oxo

Goldfish
03-Apr-02, 12:40pm
i love ya 3lp :P

threelittlepigs
03-Apr-02, 12:46pm
Thanks Kirst :o)

First smile I've had in weeks (apart from the 4 hours of artificial smiling at cheesy Tank on Thursday).

danaele
03-Apr-02, 12:52pm
Im falling down an abyss of marshmellowy lovey dovey goodness :P

-D

mmac
03-Apr-02, 12:55pm
LOL! It's Carrick, isn't it, markeee?

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 12:56pm
/me vomits on the hopeless ITMers.

Soggy pile o mish mash the lot of you. :P

k_x oxo

markeee
03-Apr-02, 12:58pm
pffft..wat r u doin markee? smack yerself oudda it sunshine..."love"...what
a crock of @!#$...the only thing a man can truly love is beer...

This person is obviously broken hearted.

I don't wanna end up like this!!!

:e )

apparently ectasy improves sex?

boz-monaut
03-Apr-02, 01:01pm
ohh you're all so sweet - aint love a beautiful thing

/me hopeless at falling in love - good at getting stalked though

(krafty, central got that crush thing too, mebee someone got at my address books)

socialnarcotic
03-Apr-02, 01:02pm
i love porn! how bout you?

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 01:09pm
/me blows sum of Boz's tickets around the room. :P

k_x oxo

dragonballT
03-Apr-02, 01:16pm
let's all have a group hug... ;)

SPOKEYDOKEY
03-Apr-02, 01:26pm
spokes is as said before a sad (but as some know, wholly misguided) romantic however it certainly isn't something that takes away the use of any major bodily functions or keeps me from dancing so i figure i'll keep running round the lounge room and making no sense



lol

MsVee
03-Apr-02, 01:26pm
/me puts up her hand... I love my CSM. xoxoxox

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 01:33pm
its nonsense spokes.

k_x oxo

/me waves to veeeeeeeeeeee

markeee
03-Apr-02, 01:48pm
"so markeee who is it?.......beXta??"

na...i don't quite meet her expectations. i imagine they would be high.

my mate is a little head ova heals for bexta!

:e )

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 01:49pm
krafty - we're all loved up. i wonder what's causing that feeling? :P

markee -
<I>apparently ectasy improves sex?</I><BR>
try it. seriously, try it :)

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 01:54pm
somebody told me bexta was a lesbo

SPOKEYDOKEY
03-Apr-02, 01:59pm
someone told me that sex was ecstacy

boz-monaut
03-Apr-02, 02:00pm
I'd still love a beer

feeble
03-Apr-02, 02:05pm
Its a bit like ecstasy- you tend to sweat lots, make spasticated uncontrollable body movements with a weird look on your face, and say things you don't really mean :p

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 02:09pm
Sex can be the most enjoyable, greatest, divinest, splendidist, physical akts man/womankind kan participate in. Love is the emotional response that can accompany it.

I love beer but I don't have sex with it.
Go figure.

k_onfused by definitions_x oxo

PS Nismo I don't know what is causing that feeling?

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 02:09pm
but u dont always have the energy to go all night :P

skywalker
03-Apr-02, 02:16pm
lmao @ feeble

ok47
03-Apr-02, 02:24pm
being in love only fools you to keep living...... that is unless its a romeo and juliet thing, in which most cases isn't. you see only beautiful things and ugly things like your partners uncontrollable habits are blinded in your vision. then in a couple a days, weeks, months or years your eyes wash away that pearly screen and are exposed to just some (and i mean only just some) of those ugly and sickening things. do you turn away or decide to stay, you are also becoming transparent, and you may not be able to hide from others anymore. you disgust each other but decide that no other will put up with you so you stay. doomed as we all are

Natashja
03-Apr-02, 02:32pm
Being hopelessly in lust is way more fun.

And way easier to extricate yourself from!!

krafty_x
03-Apr-02, 02:32pm
Speak for ureself nismo. :P

k_healthy aktive person_x oxo

boz-monaut
03-Apr-02, 02:49pm
ok47 - personally I beleive in making people love you (its easy when you know how, most people are such gullible love sick fools) and then manipulating them into doing your bidding

MrClean
03-Apr-02, 02:55pm
okdokely

ok47
03-Apr-02, 02:58pm
boz-monaut - i'd be careful with that. you never really know when you are also being manipulated. maybe it is all about being manipulated but it works both ways and so thats why it is mistaken for love. we are all horrible and self satisfying.

yes i like that, i like that very much

boz-monaut
03-Apr-02, 03:25pm
you are a twisted young soul arent you 47?

but a note to help you on your psychopathic ways - you wont get emotionally involved with these people if you have no emotions

I feel like a bond baddie, explaining in vivid detail my plans for world domination

(except I'm only taking the piss)

whitey
03-Apr-02, 03:28pm
Hands up who didn't get on the gear last weekend, isn't coming down, and can think straight?....anyone?.....

italic
03-Apr-02, 03:41pm
Being in love is rather like having a flatmate. It's a lot of hard work at the start but it gets easier with time. They are going to do things you dont like, and you are going to do things they dont like, and that doesnt mean anything, it means you hold onto your individuality. being in love is a constant struggle to understand and respect the person you are with, but the actual loving them part is easy as pie. never forget that the other person chooses to be with you, and that that choice is free will. a lot of people say that you shouldnt have to impress the other person, but i disagree. if you are constantly impressing your partner (without it being too much hard work or a change in your personality) they can't help but choose you and striving to impress someone you truly love and respect, brings out the best in you. if you are committed to loving this person, they will pick up on it and follow your example if they truly love you back. i dont think that how long you have known them is a factor but good judgement comes from knowing someone for a while, so keep that in mind before you jump into anything. last thing - sex is a mind boggler. it confuses the issue and lots of people get sex and intimacy mixed up with love. best to try and separate the two until you are more sure of your feelings.

whitey
03-Apr-02, 04:06pm
is there an agony aunt column in the pipeline for you in the Woman's Weekly italic?

ok47
03-Apr-02, 04:08pm
ill take my piss with a squeeze of lemon.

boz-monaut - this sounds like a real plan of yours hence you trying to convince me that you are only taking the piss (i know what your really thinking).

no really, i agree with your plan. sounds like you put alot of thought into it.

NismoR31
03-Apr-02, 04:11pm
ok so that's sex on friday & saturday night, sleep on sunday night, & loving monday - thursday nights.


whitey - does 2 out of 3 count? im not coming down & i can think straight.

boz-monaut
03-Apr-02, 04:15pm
o47 - shesh you really are evil - no my feelings are more like those of italic

although it is too easy to get cynical about love - especially if you've been hurt - love deeply, not blindly (and a million other cliche's about love you've all heard before)

whitey
03-Apr-02, 04:39pm
yeah that counts nismo(didn't expect anyone to get 3 from 3)....i'm a cynic and proud of it boz

hpstekno
03-Apr-02, 04:39pm
/me is madly in love :) with a wonderful perth girl

love ya dFuez :) Mwah :)

Sir Pimpsalot
03-Apr-02, 04:44pm
deep

Delerious
03-Apr-02, 05:44pm
I'm just hopeless!

del :o)

delamere
03-Apr-02, 07:35pm
anyone else never been "in love"?

Renn
03-Apr-02, 07:47pm
Re: is any one hopelessly in love?

..... me:(

jamesbrownisded
03-Apr-02, 10:52pm
I fall in love at the drop of a hat, and fall out of it just as quickly.
Well I have had two 2.5 yr relationships, so I guess I can stick to one girl for a while. but yes I am emotionally dysfunctional.
What am I going on about? Who asked this stupid question, way to TEAR MY LIFE APART SHITKNEES!

italic
04-Apr-02, 12:05am
jamesbrownisded,

sounds cliched but a pretty face does not exactly mean a good partner. What is it you are more attracted to? The looks, the sex, the idea or the person. At some stage dating people gets really boring, even though you know the person you are with is a real babe. There is something missing. Sooner or later you say to yourself. There has to be something more and I'm not going to waste my time until I find it. You start thinking about what you like about the people you date and the things you cant stand. And you also get better at recognising who its just not going to work out with, no matter how hard you try. then for some odd reason, someone shows up, you dont necessarily have to know them real well, but you get this feeling (it's THE feeling, the infamous "just knowing") that you want to try, you want to find out and you are prepared to do anything to see if it will work or not. Hopefully that person feels the same way you do, and Rob's your father's brother.

hmiller72
04-Apr-02, 12:09am
when I fall in love I think everything is great, I'm sure it is for a period but then I stop seeing the signs,stop listening to everything but MY heart and end up out of touch and confused about why things are turning to shite, my ego is such that I feel the other person shares my unending optimisim but reality grinds me into the ashphalt with her steely toe....and I end up theorising about the war on terror,when my energies should be spent on happyness. Ahh well fuckkit at least the dark of madness is yet to cast its shadow across my fragile existence.

Debz
04-Apr-02, 12:11am
so it looks like that temptation island thing really did do some wonders for italic's outlook on love! :P

(it would for me too if i had to be on an island with those pretty boys!!)

MiNxRaviN
04-Apr-02, 12:12am
Yeap
Self lovin
Is the most important type of lovin.
No one can love you like you.
;)

factive
04-Apr-02, 12:34am
"Its no one can @!#$ me like me" - Lil Kim

Love is hopeless ... i love my cock ... my cock is hopeless



Flown

micks
04-Apr-02, 02:34am
hmm, nothin wrong with being 'hopelessly' in love, just enjoy liking the person no matter wot, that's kinda wot love's about...

course, after a while of liking someone, having them know that you like em, and nothing happenind between you, may often give the idea that dere's something a little awry with that particular relationship...

don't mean they aint a beeutiful person, and you can still love em, but lovin someone and being in a relationship with them aren't the same thing.

NismoR31
04-Apr-02, 08:53am
<I>Rob's your father's brother</I><BR>i am not.

Lulu
04-Apr-02, 08:57am
but i larve you

miss apple
04-Apr-02, 08:58am
nismo i thought your name was nigel

NismoR31
04-Apr-02, 09:04am
where'd u get that from miss apple? not that other thread where the name was mentioned? yeah i know 2 ppl with that name, they're not me tho.

whitey
04-Apr-02, 09:12am
Rob's your father's brother = Bob's your uncle....and yeah i'm with you Debz...italic should definitely submit some of her work to woman's weekly agony aunt, it just keeps on getting better and more true....speak the gospel italic...;P

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 09:41am
After my cynical krap yesterday a werd for the jaded.

Love is a fabulous thing when it werx in all it's purity it is the most fulfilling thing we kan experience.

As for manipulating people. One werd. Wrong.

Perhaps I have the fortune of enjoying my own company enuff to not require external validation.

Who knows? Tis a mystery to me but a bootuful one, all cynicism aside.

k_x oxo

NismoR31
04-Apr-02, 10:10am
<I>Rob's your father's brother = Bob's your uncle</I><BR>
whitey...... DER.

whitey
04-Apr-02, 10:13am
oh god

*hides head in shame*

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 10:40am
Yes.

k_didn't say it was me though_x oxo :P

markeee
04-Apr-02, 11:07am
~"then for some odd reason, someone shows up, you dont necessarily have to know them real well, but you get this feeling (it's THE feeling, the infamous "just knowing") that you want to try, you want to find out and you are prepared to do anything to see if it will work or not. Hopefully that person feels the same way you do, and Rob's your father's brother."

"unquote from the lovely italics."

you have much wisdom...italics...

...if it is not love (too early) and it is not lust (don't wanna go there) what would you call it?

~Krafty..."hopefully in love"...sounds like something your partner is?

no more comments please. just me and italic now. (krafty...you are allowed one more)

;e )

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 11:48am
Why thankyou.

Krafty kould konverse on the positives and pitfalls of the illustrious werds love, lust, desire, need, blah blah blah.

k_eeping herself out of trouble though_x oxo ;P

NismoR31
04-Apr-02, 12:29pm
bah

comment :)

IMO people know what they're feeling. others just use other words to try & make people think their feelings have no substance, due to their own lack of it.

$0.022

italic
04-Apr-02, 02:01pm
you dont have to decide if its love straight a way, there's plenty of time for that. it's more important at an early stage to create a level of trust between the two of you. this level of trust is just to make the both of you feel safe enough to open up a bit more and to let a little more possibility into it. what tends to happen in a lot of young relationships is that people are a bit paranoid. they are paranoid of showing too much feeling, paranoid of being themselves, paranoid of expecting too much from a relationship too soon. so this level of trust is like saying "hey, we can go as fast or as slow as you want, or not at all if you need to. just be yourself, i'm ok with any of that, and if you need to freak out a little bit, that's ok too." then before you know it, the two of you can relax and the edginess of it all wears off and its more like a friendship with a possibility of something else, which is an excellent way to start off a relationship.

zarate_fix
04-Apr-02, 02:12pm
im yet to know what love is

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 02:12pm
Italic = sensible.

My trick is to wig out, fark it all up and be known to self as krafty_total relationship bloody disaster_x

k_x oxo

Fluff
04-Apr-02, 02:17pm
To answer Markee's first question about the love bit: Yes, yes and more yes


To respond to Italics last comment: Girl you are on the money!!!

Especially the last couple of sentances. That situation occured to me (met thru a friend and became friends originally 2 years ago) and I'm glad that it went that way 'cos it has only got better.... - which is the reason for the answer in the first place

italic
04-Apr-02, 02:30pm
just call me dr. lurrrrrrrrrve

LOL

mebbe i should have a regular post on ITM.

djswitch
04-Apr-02, 02:35pm
... bizarre love triangles absolutely @!#$ me ...

markeee
04-Apr-02, 02:52pm
I am just glad i left the globe when i did.

Should I show her the forum???

May make for interesting conversation.

:e )

whitey
04-Apr-02, 03:51pm
Dear Italic,
I have a friend who i find extremely attractive and am very keen on, however i fear that she doesn't feel the same way towards me as i do towards her. What should i do to get her attention or should i let it slide and see what happens naturally?

Yours faithfully,

Confused.

italic
04-Apr-02, 04:06pm
Whitey,

have you ever seen the movie "Dangerous Liaisons"? It has john malkovich, glenn close and michelle pfeiffer in it. There was a really good tip on seeing if there's a possiblity for a relationship in it. In the movie, he approaches the girl, he tells her he loves her, she rebuffs him, he says "that's ok, i still love you" she says, "i cant, im with someone else, i just want to be friends", he says "that's ok, i still love you." she says "you cant, its not appropriate", he says "i can be friends with you and still love you cant i?", she says "yes, i suppose so, as long as you dont do anything improper", he says "fine, nothing improper, but i still love you". and she ends up falling madly in love with him and they both die.

you get my drift here? he's prepared to express his feelings no matter what the consequences are and she respects that even though she doesnt return the feelings at first. after a while, she begins to appreciate his commitment to loving her and sees the value in it and decides what the heck, why not?

the point is, you have nothing to lose, there's no loss in dignity here. it's a brave thing to admit you like someone when there's a chance that they dont feel the same way, and admitting it will almost always leave a huge impact on the other person. the other point here is that love is unconditional. you dont love someone on the condition that they love you back, do you? you love someone because you love them and because its worth it for you until you decide its not something you want anymore. if you like her, tell her. make a stand one way or another and feel good about it. if it doesnt work, then there are plenty more people in this world to love.

mmac
04-Apr-02, 04:11pm
markeee you are a total fucking sap and you are getting a slagging next time I see you.

SPOKEYDOKEY
04-Apr-02, 04:16pm
wow italic, you just about knocked me over with that, no kidding, cheers,

nick

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 04:27pm
Too scarey.

k_x oxo

PS. /mefinx given the fact these two threads have stayed up the top ITM should pay for some serious therapy. We're all so young and so skrewed.

*shrug*

italic
04-Apr-02, 04:38pm
krafty_x,

there is no one in this world that doesnt need counselling about something or other. human beings have misconceived notions about themselves and define who they are by how other people treat them. they take things that people say and make them means things about themselves that aren't true. as soon as you can start to separate yourself from other people's opinions about you, you can be more secure in yourself and make better decisions about what you want to do with your life. it makes you feel strong knowing that you are who YOU say yourself to be.

whitey
04-Apr-02, 04:51pm
Italic I think i love you.

krafty_x
04-Apr-02, 04:59pm
Hey I was referring to the general populus here.

My real question was on the other thread.

k_x oxo

Eskape
04-Apr-02, 05:07pm
baddabing baddaboom
*sigh*

NismoR31
04-Apr-02, 05:08pm
ooooo now that's public! :)

on ya whitey (if you're serious) on ya anyway even if ur not :)

whitey
04-Apr-02, 05:43pm
lmao

Helster
04-Apr-02, 07:12pm
love your work so much italic :-)

am hopelessly in love and hate it... so much more together when I'm on my own and my emotions are not malleable to some boy's actions (or lack thereof)

and damn... i'm not even with this boy so what the fu*k am I doing?

leaving work as it's 7:05pm... thats wot
:-)

italic
04-Apr-02, 08:04pm
Helster,

you are in a tough situation. the biggest enemy here is yourself. if im reading this correctly then it appears that you have strong feelings for him, but he either doesnt return those feelings or doesnt show it if he does. Perhaps it might be an idea to ask yourself some serious questions. is he worth the effort you put in? does he deserve your love? so many times, people are more in love with the idea of the person than who they really are. it's this idealism that keeps people hanging on for way longer than they really should. i should know i have been there several times. if its one thing that i have learnt, and a lesson i have learnt very well i might add, from heaps of practice, is that a person must deserve to have your love. He/she must prove by way of his actions that there is something there worth loving. If you love this person, you should tell him, even if there is a possibility that he does not love you back. His response to your feelings will be very important for you in determining if this love is something you want to keep or something better left by the wayside. Perhaps he may not return your feelings but may respect them and offer friendship. Perhaps he may react badly. Whatever the outcome you must be prepared for it and take charge of your own life and emotions. Either way, you need some resolution, im gathering.

Dbauch
04-Apr-02, 10:24pm
yeah!

i'm in love!

i'm happy!

Dont have any problems that i cant sort out myself either :)

I think not having a radio in my car gives me many hours of thinking time

Lambretta
04-Apr-02, 10:49pm
I'm in love with Mrs Lamb. 8 years and counting and she loves me back.
Don't get any better!!

I also love West Ham, but those bastards don't love me.
No Premiership, No FA Cup, not even a League Cup. Nothing, not a sausage in all the years I've been following them. Breaks me 'eart it does guvnor.

Oh we won the FA Youth Cup. Yippeee, it's all been worth it. ahem.

Helster
05-Apr-02, 12:13pm
whoa ... that was a whole lot of publicness that feels kinda wierd.

:-)

krafty_x
05-Apr-02, 12:22pm
I'm hopeless..... /me joins del.

k_x oxo

SPOKEYDOKEY
05-Apr-02, 12:26pm
spokes gives krafty a gentle-as-a-cloud squeeze and says she bloody well is not hopeless, well.......not at everything

krafty_x
05-Apr-02, 12:49pm
*blink*

k_x oxo

SPOKEYDOKEY
05-Apr-02, 01:02pm
careful, blink and you'll miss it

krafty_x
05-Apr-02, 01:12pm
I aint saying a single werd.

/me giggles.

k_x oxo

markeee
06-Apr-02, 08:48am
~italics

she messaged me this morning.

she could be interested...?

this possibility has made my day...i am going shopping.

:e )

it would be nice to see you at SC tonight italics. i will be the one getting advise from Lambretta. he has been with mrs lam for a while now you know.

"when the student is ready, the teacher appears"

hope you are all on the sweetchilli mailing list.

Shif_T
06-Apr-02, 09:02am
is there any way to get italic to shut her fuggin mouth?

GfunK
06-Apr-02, 09:15am
dj royal is in love with himself.

GfunK
06-Apr-02, 09:15am
everybody loves rodney.

markeee
06-Apr-02, 09:13pm
somebody feed the disgruntled goat...

this is therapy

:e )

italic
06-Apr-02, 11:47pm
Shif_T,

whats your problem? just felt like being angry did you?

fairybread
28-Mar-04, 01:36pm
WHATS LOVE

forgedmc
28-Mar-04, 01:53pm
lol@this

MiNxRaviN
28-Mar-04, 02:54pm
absolutely

Breakme
28-Mar-04, 03:20pm
Pffft love.

I'll prefer to stay hopepless for now.

Busty
28-Mar-04, 04:07pm
I sure am, I that hopelessly in love I'll even let my partner whip the shyt out of me a little too hard, when we did a bondage show in a club last night ;D Love is blind and painful sometimes....:lol:

SynAck
28-Mar-04, 04:44pm
Whats love got to do it with ?

:blush:

mitsubachi
28-Mar-04, 04:53pm
Love is my fella googling my name and discovering for me that I'd won membership at a local club... love him so much right now! Bring on the express lane!!

katey1eighty
28-Mar-04, 06:56pm
I've never been in love and probably never will either


Ta to whoever brought this thread back :|


love can fuck off. Fuck. FUUUUUUUUUUUCK. what a fucking waste of my fucking time.






I'm not bitter about it though.

Luke The Gun
28-Mar-04, 07:08pm
Originally posted by katey1eighty
I've never been in love and probably never will either

Dont feel so bad, I'm in the same boat if its any consolation.

But after the fun I had last night I couldnt really give a fuck about it.

silvaside
28-Mar-04, 08:01pm
Originally posted by katey1eighty
I've never been in love and probably never will either

shoes...hiphop? :P

katey1eighty
28-Mar-04, 10:07pm
yeah shoes and hip hop are precisely the two reasons why I will probably never get the chance to be in love....


I cant find a man who is willing to compete with them.... nor can I find a man who shares the same amount of passion for them that I do.....

crazypiller
28-Mar-04, 10:46pm
I love my boi so much, he means the world to me :blush:
& yes its possible to fall in love after 4 days!! I moved in after like a month lol
MWAH baby. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Insomniac
28-Mar-04, 10:51pm
guess i'm one of the lucky ones

but - and call me old fashioned if you must - i do believe for those of you who are alone or lonely presently that the love you give out comes back to you

candyman
29-Mar-04, 12:30am
:lol: this sounds like a naoki thread.....

ar.beautiful bust blondee.love!!!!!!!! I look at her!! *gush*

SPOKEYDOKEY
29-Mar-04, 10:08am
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

er, i mean, no :p

krafty_x
29-Mar-04, 10:21am
Hmmm. Not hopelessly. I'd say hopefully.

The future's so bright... I gotta wear shades.

k_x oxo

littleblonde
29-Mar-04, 10:23am
Love? Que?

Not right now but you never know what could happen.... ;)

oni0n
29-Mar-04, 10:23am
Originally posted by krafty_x
Hmmm. Not hopelessly. I'd say hopefully.

The future's so bright... I gotta wear shades.

k_x oxo


krafty lub me l0ng time...

Milky Crate Kid
29-Mar-04, 10:23am
Yes... Yes I am thankyou... ;D

Nice of you to ask.

MCK

Miss Special K
29-Mar-04, 10:24am
Originally posted by krafty_x
Hmmm. Not hopelessly. I'd say hopefully.

The future's so bright... I gotta wear shades.

k_x oxo

excuse me krafty but what happened to that spunky something at your work...is this the fella in question

Brakebeets
29-Mar-04, 10:40am
Originally posted by kzzy
i'm in love, with a girl who is already in a relationship, and her boyfriend is a good mate of mine... we both share these feelings, and when we are together things seem so right..

i knew her before knowing she had a boyfriend, and was kinda rudely introduced to him one day.... i have no qualms with her boyfriend, he is literally a top mate, so i can't see much comin out of this...

but the facts are that
a) we love each other
b) i can never be with her because of her current boyfriend and the friendship i have with him
c) i don't wanna break em up, because things seem to be going fine...
d) gah...

damn dude, that sux :( i think point d) sums it up well

krafty_x
29-Mar-04, 10:51am
Yes Miss Special K.

What a spectacular fellow he turned out to be. Of course he's a bazillion miles away in the UK running amok. Life goes on and everything is grand.

He had such a profound effect on me I'm simply happy to have had him in my life.

Bit of a void in the office now I must say.

k_ontent_ oxo

Dbauch
29-Mar-04, 11:20am
not anymore :P

looking forward to falling again though :)

central_smurf
29-Mar-04, 11:36am
definately - im so happy right now :blush:

krafty_x
29-Mar-04, 12:37pm
I don't like shoes that pinch your toes or people who squirt you with the garden hose but mmmmmmmmm

I love Onion.

Onion
Onion
Ah ah ah!

k_plucks an appropriate song out of the air_x oxo

Busty
29-Mar-04, 02:01pm
http://www.brisnightlife.com.au//upload/gallery/27-03-2004-Family-DJPortia-Img2636.jpg

HELL YES!!!! thats my girl in Pink, and I'm sooooooooooooooo madly & hopelessly in love with her!!;D

Chharge
29-Mar-04, 03:23pm
Originally posted by krafty_x
I don't like shoes that pinch your toes or people who squirt you with the garden hose but mmmmmmmmm

I love Onion.

Onion
Onion
Ah ah ah!

k_plucks an appropriate song out of the air_x oxo

I agree, she is hawt :blush:

feeble
29-Mar-04, 04:32pm
Yeah, ridiculously. He's everything I could've wanted in a partner in crime, the deviant little bastard.

cali
29-Mar-04, 04:42pm
i is in love with my man . . . which is a bloody good thing as he's my fiance.

lust is fun but it will fade

true love lasts forever
end of mushy post

:blush:

LowJohnny
29-Mar-04, 05:10pm
I'm hopelessly in love with every fit girl I see in a short skirt.

Moonkissed
29-Mar-04, 07:27pm
it sounds like everyone is hopelessly in love??
me? cant say anyone has made me stop or lose my breath lately, cant say anyone has blown me away with their thoughts or dreams? maybe its just cause i am back from an amazing holiday and things are always seem a little dull after you have just had the experience of your life.
i was in something while in thailand but it wasnt love or lust, maybe i would call it awe?? there you go i have been in awe recently and he is coming to sydney in a few weeks so will see if the awe is still there, but think the awe included not just him but the holiday, the vibe etc combined so will prob be dissapointed.
i woulndt mind being hopelessley in love

Megs
29-Mar-04, 10:04pm
me me!! im crazy in love:blush:

Iain
29-Mar-04, 10:41pm
Originally posted by Megs
im crazy in love:blush:



I now have a song in my head that i really dont want there. :(:-O :-0 X( :~(

candyman
29-Mar-04, 10:43pm
Originally posted by LowJohnny
I'm hopelessly in love with every fit girl I see in a short skirt.

:lol: Do you work in North Sydney :? :lol:

LowJohnny
30-Mar-04, 09:14am
Originally posted by candyman


:lol: Do you work in North Sydney :? :lol:

I wish man! That whole area is wall-to-wall quality.

Few things in life bring me more joy than cruising along Military Rd and spotting cutie after god damn cutie in skimpy gym attire.

I work in Parramatta ffs.

Spotting a beautiful woman here is like trying to find an Aussie in Ashfield, or a black man in Mosman.




*Note: No racism intended. I just have rarely seen a black man in Mosman. More of them I say.

ArTeX
30-Mar-04, 10:41am
yea i am madly in love but the prob is meand my boyfirend are kinda taking a breaks...(so not my idea).... but that has to be the worst feelings ever.....loving someone so much and then not be sure if they feel the same about you.....

LowJohnny
30-Mar-04, 10:50am
Originally posted by ArTeX
yea i am madly in love but the prob is meand my boyfirend are kinda taking a breaks...(so not my idea).... but that has to be the worst feelings ever.....loving someone so much and then not be sure if they feel the same about you.....

I am in love with the person my girlfriend used to be, but not the person she has become. Work is the main priority for her, while work is the least of my priorities. (Living to work? I'll be here 70 years if I'm lucky, and I'm not going to waste any of it on pursuit of material possessions, or meaningless accolades.)

So that is my reason for a break. Hopeless optimism. Hoping that one day in the future she magically transforms back into someone similar to the person I fell in love with.

My friend asked me last night "do breaks ever work?".

Do they? I'm really curious to know if anyone had a successful relationship break and lived happily ever after.

ArTeX
30-Mar-04, 11:06am
heh well ill be sure to let you know if and what happens,,,,,, i really hope that we do get back together cause i really do love him so so so much that i almost fele like i cant breathe without him.... so sad i know....

we have been on this break thing now for about 2-3 weeks... still seen eachother like 3-4 times....but yea its getting so hard....hopefully when i see him on the weekend something good will come of it

Tarz
30-Mar-04, 12:02pm
Originally posted by LowJohnny

My friend asked me last night "do breaks ever work?".

Do they? I'm really curious to know if anyone had a successful relationship break and lived happily ever after.

I think breaks when things are going good work, just have a decent amount of time away from each other.

Breaks when things are bad, i dont like, they might work a bit but i think they just make you lose faith in the relationship, and trust in how your partner feels.

But really it depends on the reason for a break sometimes you do just feel suffocated in a relationship and just want some time to yourself, i dont think much is wrong with this, if you having a break because your confused about feelings, i think things are going to just go down hill from there.

My best friend and her now husband, got together and then had a break where she met another guy, but decided she did love him, they got back together and are honestly the happiest couple ive ever seens So sometimes they do work.

phunkdust
30-Mar-04, 05:29pm
nah i'm not... but if any cute geeky girls out there want to apply, just send me a PM... 8-)

unscarred
30-Mar-04, 06:49pm
nup.

i'm hopeless with love though if that counts :?

Miss Special K
30-Mar-04, 11:42pm
Originally posted by krafty_x
Yes Miss Special K.

What a spectacular fellow he turned out to be. Of course he's a bazillion miles away in the UK running amok. Life goes on and everything is grand.

He had such a profound effect on me I'm simply happy to have had him in my life.

Bit of a void in the office now I must say.

k_ontent_ oxo

Thats awsome krafty.....so happy to hear it, i was wondering about that.....

smiling for you!! :blush:

ChemicalKitten
31-Mar-04, 09:58am
i'm so in love with him... but he isn't sure if he loves me anymore.

i've never cried so much, wanted to die so much and just plain felt like the world is crashing down around me.

i can't help but love him, i will love him forever i know it.

ms money penny
31-Mar-04, 10:03am
Every time I see the title of this thread I start singing "Hopelessly Devoted To You" :meh:

Busty
31-Mar-04, 10:30am
Originally posted by ms money penny
Every time I see the title of this thread I start singing "Hopelessly Devoted To You" :meh:

In the ways of Pauly..



MMP.





































NO!!

sway
31-Mar-04, 10:48am
for the past year i've been hopelessly in love - it's the first time i've experienced this emotion and i've enjoyed every minute of it.

he's completed me :blush:

Kazi
31-Mar-04, 10:53am
aww sarah thats so sweet :blush: :blush: :blush:








just wait till he breaks ur heart......then ull become a bitter and twisted old woman just like me
:P

sway
31-Mar-04, 11:03am
Originally posted by Kazi
just wait till he breaks ur heart......then ull become a bitter and twisted old woman just like me
:P

sif he would :(

i have complete faith in the fact that he'd never do anything to upset me. it's effortless. we just 'fit' - perfect relationship without even trying :blush:





sorry for the girly-wah-wah mushiness. i had to leave him all innocent and sleepy in bed this morning and just can't get him outta my head.

Kazi
31-Mar-04, 11:15am
sorrry babe...i wasnt saying he would....

as i said im just bitter and was in ur boat after a year...and sometimes things change thats all....

ChemicalKitten
31-Mar-04, 01:35pm
Originally posted by Kazi
sorrry babe...i wasnt saying he would....

as i said im just bitter and was in ur boat after a year...and sometimes things change thats all....


isn't it the most gutting feeling in the whole world :(

LowJohnny
31-Mar-04, 01:47pm
Originally posted by ChemicalKitten



isn't it the most gutting feeling in the whole world :(

It's a pretty fkn sucky feeling.

But it gradually fades.

bubbles81
31-Mar-04, 01:49pm
They sure do!!!

I have been with my boy for 2.5 years & lately things have been getting very bad between us.

Last nite was make or break & we have decided to give it a go...

Never thought I would be in this situation with this person...ever...

:~(

krafty_x
31-Mar-04, 01:50pm
I'm stuck half way between feeling splendid amounts of joy and inspiration and complete sadness over the loss.

k_onfused state of mind_x oxo

nettsu
31-Mar-04, 01:53pm
i'm actually happy atm :)

i'm falling in lust with someone... we've been in contact daily - still no second date set but I don't really see that being an issue... it will happen ;)

only complication at the moment is the dj... but thats a different story...

discotrash
31-Mar-04, 02:38pm
Originally posted by nettsu
i'm actually happy atm :)

i'm falling in lust with someone... we've been in contact daily - still no second date set but I don't really see that being an issue... it will happen ;)

...it's kinda fun falling in lust with someone isn't it??

alexmac
31-Mar-04, 02:42pm
Completely obsessed, addicted and hooked...
I’ve been with my baby, and everything’s blessed...

Charging along, and 6 years have passed,
I tell her I lover her... it beats in my chest.

As life and the changes, pass in its stages
We stand as a unit... united in movement.

Dbauch
31-Mar-04, 02:52pm
Originally posted by alexmac
Completely obsessed, addicted and hooked...
I’ve been with my baby, and everything’s blessed...

Charging along, and 6 years have passed,
I tell her I lover her... it beats in my chest.

As life and the changes, pass in its stages
We stand as a unit... united in movement.

oh god that just made me cry :(

you are both so lucky... dont ever let go or take that other person for granted

/me sighs

Tarz
31-Mar-04, 02:53pm
im in love - im in a bit of hesitant stage of being in love, knowing that sometimes love isnt enough to make things work - but that doesnt matter as im still very much in love, even if it works or doesnt, i know he will always be very very special to me.

nettsu
31-Mar-04, 02:54pm
Originally posted by discotrash


...it's kinda fun falling in lust with someone isn't it??

yeah it is

but my phone bill is going through the roof :lol:

ah well its all good ;)

krafty_x
31-Mar-04, 03:17pm
Oh gawd.

We've got hump day blues in the house.

Is there a full moon or something?

Or just Wiggy Wednesday?

Amac. I too thought that was just beautiful. Splendid. Props.

*sigh*

k_heart string tug_x oxo

littleblonde
31-Mar-04, 03:26pm
Completely obsessed, addicted and hooked...
I’ve been with my baby, and everything’s blessed...

Charging along, and 6 years have passed,
I tell her I lover her... it beats in my chest.

As life and the changes, pass in its stages
We stand as a unit... united in movement.

:meh:

/me sighs.. that's really beautiful.

DrBenway
31-Mar-04, 03:31pm
I was in love, but he ripped my fucking heart out!
That bastard destroyed everything in one foul swoop that we had worked on for years.
I have never felt my trust and love so missused.
Took me a year before I would even see my old friends again.
I can now walk again after what he did, but the internal scars still remain.
If you have someone special don't ever treat them badly, It hurts more than you could ever intend. :(

krafty_x
31-Mar-04, 03:37pm
Jeez. Sounds full on. Hope you're alright. Dr Benway.

The only person in life you can be certain of is yourself. Even that's tricky sometimes.

However. You can't live your life with an 'a plane might fall on my head' kinda attitude. Unless of course you're 747's lovely gf.

:P :P :P

k_x oxo

Alicia Laner
31-Mar-04, 03:47pm
Originally posted by DrBenway
I was in love, but he ripped my fucking heart out!
That bastard destroyed everything in one foul swoop that we had worked on for years.
I have never felt my trust and love so missused.
Took me a year before I would even see my old friends again.
I can now walk again after what he did, but the internal scars still remain.
If you have someone special don't ever treat them badly, It hurts more than you could ever intend. :(

yawn.

DrBenway
31-Mar-04, 03:49pm
Don't you dare Aly (or should I say Karen), dont' start all of it again here. :|

Lilly Tei
31-Mar-04, 03:52pm
What was that about not airing your personal grievances online.
Grow up both of you, it's not pretty. :|

Barney
31-Mar-04, 04:33pm
Love, ha.

I'm in love with a girl that will never feel that way for me. All while trying to deal with feelings I still have for my ex.

I've never felt feelings like this before and having to deal with both of them at the same time sucks. The feelings for my ex I can deal with to some extent but as for the other one...

Most of the time it scares the everlasting fuck out of me.

I slowly feel like I'm getting over it and I hope more than anything that I am. She'll know how I feel soon and then I think I'll truley be able to move on. I don't want to tell her cause I know it'll hurt her but it is something I have to do.

BlueSteel
31-Mar-04, 06:01pm
Originally posted by markeee

I fear I may be heading there...resistance is futile!

:e )

her name is...






\o/ for Marquie.




I love you!!

becy
31-Mar-04, 09:41pm
I'm in love with someone that doesn't love me back. I can't be with this person, no matter what I do or say.

So i've decided instead of getting broken hearted about it, i'm just going to have as much casual sex as I can. :)

BlueSteel
31-Mar-04, 10:10pm
How much casual can you get than you already were?

becy
31-Mar-04, 10:18pm
Originally posted by BlueSteel
How much casual can you get than you already were?


now i don't bother to find out their names first

BlueSteel
31-Mar-04, 10:24pm
Fucking whore. Join the Bella Boo club please.

becy
31-Mar-04, 10:32pm
DON'T YOU EVER CALL ME A FUCKING WHORE YOU PIECE OF SHIT.













zif i make them pay

BlueSteel
31-Mar-04, 10:43pm
And you want me to pay 20 cents to call you.

becy
31-Mar-04, 11:03pm
yeah sure, next time you're putting up ur card in the phone booths on commercial road, give me a call, i might be able to give you some tips on rimjobs

BlueSteel
31-Mar-04, 11:05pm
Originally posted by becy
yeah sure, next time you're putting up ur card in the phone booths on commercial road, give me a call, i might be able to give you some tips on rimjobs





Why call when i know you'd only be around the corner giving one?