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When you find yourself in the situation, where your partner has or is cheating on you. Who do you turn & blame?
One will usually turn the anger & frustration on the one that they have been replaced with. The girl! As you think that such a girl would have to be quite cheap, with little to no respect for her self. In order for her to even consider, let alone go for a taken boy. This being concluded through the fact that she is unable to find another boy but has to go for your scraps instead. Hence your fuel for your fire.
But how quickly we forget, the cheating partner. What I find interesting, is how we are able to turn a blind eye to the partner, this person that we have respected & shared with, not to mention trusted & loved. Allowing them to get off with an excuse of being lured by another or some other lame excuse or plea of pity. When really they where the one that wasn’t able to control them selves in the first place.
You might think that I’m quite bitter in my conclusion, but I also though this. So then I asked a few other boys, who happily agreed with the following truth: that guys do have a conscience, but it’s not a matter of principal when it comes to a relationship – as relationships will come & go. But just the simple fact that if they can’t satisfy them, they will find another whom will.
My question is who is the real dog in such a case – the boy who can’t keep his dick in his pants or the girls who can’t find her own? Or is it all just another vicious part of the circle of life & we should just get over it?
bumpmek
30-Jul-02, 05:20pm
Being the jealous carnt that i can be, i would instantly go for the girl, whether i knew her or not, i would hunt her down and kill the slut! See u have your answer already... hehehehe
With my partner, i'd be more asking questions as to why did he feel the need to do this to me.... is he not satisfied, was it a drunken/wasted effort, why basically, i'd want to get to the bottom of what had happened in my relationship to cause him to stoop so low....
I know the girl he did it with might not know he had a partner (if i didn't know her), so technically i couldn't have a go at her, but your natural instinct would want to kill!
Know what i mean gov?
Charley
30-Jul-02, 05:30pm
The initial reaction is to blame the other girl for stealing your man. BUT they are both at fault.
I would blame the guy because he is in a relationship with you. The other woman might not have know he was with someone. Also depends on if this other chick knows you or not, is she a friend??
If she knew that you were together then i would kill them both. If she didn't i would be pissed off at her but would blame the guy for doing that to me..... X(
whoah... another hard hitting 1st post... I like this style.
Hit the ground running / come out guns blazing / may the bridges I burn, light my way kinda shit.
Instant Sam
30-Jul-02, 05:35pm
may the bridges I burn, light my way kinda shit.
nice.
Maybe Jaffa is Gfunk.
Tristan
30-Jul-02, 05:40pm
Originally posted by bumpmek
i would instantly go for the girl, i would hunt her down and kill the slut!
your natural instinct would want to kill!
Bloody hell, Bumpmek's not one to mess with.
Crazybob
30-Jul-02, 05:41pm
Well my ex-fiance cheated on me, and at the time I was a bit of a psychopath. So off me and my brother went to the apartment of " loverboy " and put him in the hosp. He got fked up long term from the beating though sop I feel pretty bad about it.
At the end of the day though, he hurt me alot more than I hurt him.
Ive been cheated on...got rid of them straight away,i dont stand for it X(
I wouldnt say im a jealous person...i find if im getting all worked up and anxious,its generally because sub-conciously i know that theyre not trustworthy.But I DO NOT SHARE!!! :lol: Ive gotten back together with guys after theyve treated me really badly,but ive never gotten back with someone who cheated on me.
Now,for the other POV...ive been the other woman...but i didnt know!!! 6 MONTHS i went out with this guy b4 i found out about the other g'friend (whom he'd been with for 2-3 yrs,she was hoping theyd get married!) Get this,he lived in Dural (for the sydney-siders) and the other gf lived about 15 mins away from me...so he'd visit us both in the one trip!! :-0
Yes,i still feel very stupid,but i did eventually find out...did some brilliant detective work,found her phone no.,spoke to her mother who confirmed it for me,decided i should tell the mother so she could decide whether or not to tell her,then called the guy :lol: :lol:
I say blame the cheater:
Scenario #1- The other person doesnt know
Scenario #2- The other person DOES know...but who is the one doing the betraying?
Allowing them to get off with an excuse of being lured by another or some other lame excuse or plea of pity. When really they where the one that wasn’t able to control them selves in the first place.
Exactly
If u find yourself wanting to be with someone else,then ur obviously over the relationship ur in,so get out of it,simple. Or maybe u just want the best of both worlds,in which case u deserve all the vengance ur betrayed partner can dish out XD
At the end of the day though, he hurt me alot more than I hurt him.
Bones heal, and chicks dig scars, but crazybobs heart is hurt forever. I feel for ya, big guy.
Instant Sam
30-Jul-02, 05:50pm
He got fked up long term from the beating though sop I feel pretty bad about it.
So you should man - thats terrible.
Did you apply the same treatment to your fiance? It takes two to tango etc..
takes two to tango - both people are accountable I think
littleblonde
30-Jul-02, 06:01pm
Having your trust shattered in this way rips your heart out. Both parties are accountable by all means but I agree that the anger initially tends to be directed to the person that they have cheated with, even though this is fairly irrational.
Crazybob
30-Jul-02, 06:04pm
Originally posted by Instant Sam
So you should man - thats terrible.
Did you apply the same treatment to your fiance? It takes two to tango etc..
I wanted to beleive me, but there just some things ya can an can't do.
And yeah I do hold her responsible. I was a young hot head though at the time, and wasn't thinking...
Lakiita_
30-Jul-02, 07:05pm
I have been the other woman as well but I didn't know the girl and I never hit on the guy - he hit on me.
I figured the sex was good and I wasn't cheating on anyone so it was his problem not mine. I never attempted to entice him in to a relationship and in fact we never even discussed it. We were friends long before we shagged so it was never a big deal.
I would never want to get involved with him because he is a cheater and not to be trusted.
If I knew both parties involved I would be upset with both but otherwise my contempt is reserved for the cheater.'
I'm completely with Bumba on this one....
If u find yourself wanting to be with someone else,then ur obviously over the relationship ur in,so get out of it,simple
If the girl knew that my bf was in a relationship then her life wouldn't be worth living.
I would need to have a long discussion with my boy to find out why. Theres no excuses but there can be mitigating factors that come into play.
All in all it is a very difficult situation and if you do decide to forgive your partner then it can be very difficult in future times.:(
Lord Belial
30-Jul-02, 09:23pm
I used to be of the opinion that the people who partners cheat with are at fault, at least partially. But recently I've changed my mind. If someone's unfulfilled or maybe just untrustworthy, they'll cheat anyway, so it's not the fault of the person they cheat with. If that person isn't there they'll probably sleep with someone else. I think the blame rests entirely upon the person who cheats.
Having said that I would almost never sleep with someone I knew was spoken for, unless she was really, really fit ;D Ah, who am I kidding, I have no morals! XD
Syk Syd
31-Jul-02, 12:15am
fuck'em
Exactly,even if they know the person is taken,true,they know its wrong,but they arent out to get you,they are not hurting u personally...they dont know u.The responsibility for the hurt lies with the cheater,cos theyre the one that made the promise,that theyd be faithful to u,theyre the ones that are going to cause u pain,and they know it,but they do it anyway.
I've been the victim of infidelity. got the convictions to proove it and everything.
cheat at your peril... watch the opening scenes of that new tom cruise flick to see what should happen to ppl who cheat.
Mickstah
31-Jul-02, 12:54am
Ahhhh the politics of relationships. I wonder when and how all these principals came into play? And what shaped societies views into what they are now...?
I say it was the Middle ages that are to blame, hehhe.
redambition
31-Jul-02, 01:05am
its both their faults, most of the time.
however, if the guy has lied to the other girl and said that he's NOT in a relationship, then what? i would lay the blame squarely on his shoulders....
Optimus Rhyme
31-Jul-02, 01:06am
I cant believe someone said and many ppl agree, that the first instinct is to go after who they cheated with.... id be infinitely more pissed off at my partner and that would be my main concern....
bunkster
31-Jul-02, 01:44am
It does take 2 to tango!
Your cheating partner knows that their cheating on you whereas the other person may not know!
Who cares about the other person. It is your g/f or b/f who has detroyed the trust, lied and shown you no respect. You don't need friends like that!
Dump their ass and find someone else. There are plenty of people, girls and guys, who don't put up with that sort of behaviour.
btw jaffa, you sexist piece of shi</i>t, the title of this thread is an insult to every man who's ever been fuc</i>ked over by a woman, and trust me, there's been plenty of them. How dare you insinuate it's all tha man's fault. When a bitch does it, is she expressing her personal freedom and inner fuc</i>king pixie or some shit? I so want to slap you in the head right now. not very plur of me, but fuck you.
^5 N4TE
That was my instant first reaction, having been cheated on by a girl who I was prepared to marry.
Time to regurgitate my standard line: it takes two to tango, yada yada. I'm over the aforementioned little ho, but fuck it hurt at the time.
My (now ex) boyfriend cheated on me for months and months with another girl. When I found out I thought he was the world's biggest arsehole, obviously, but I also hate the girl even though I've never met her. I hate her because she knew he was going out with someone, although she'd never met me personally, and she didn't end it. I wonder what kind of girl has so little respect for herself that she'll knowingly go out with a guy who's got a partner that he's not going to leave. What kind of girl puts up with being "the bit on the side" for that long? Did she not realise that he was treating us both badly? How did she fool herself into thinking sharing a guy with another girl who didn't know it was happening, was ok? What did she think every time he left her to come and see me, or when he got phone calls from me when she was there?
X(
still quite bitter about this whole thing, years later.
and yet, the guy is now one of my best mates :meh:
i know, it makes no sense :|
Definately the partners fault. They are the ones cheating & who are hurting someone they are meant to love & care for.
If you can't be faithful, don't be in a relationship.
Originally posted by lush
My (now ex) boyfriend cheated on me for months and months with another girl. When I found out I thought he was the world's biggest arsehole, obviously, but I also hate the girl even though I've never met her. I hate her because she knew he was going out with someone, although she'd never met me personally, and she didn't end it. I wonder what kind of girl has so little respect for herself that she'll knowingly go out with a guy who's got a partner that he's not going to leave. What kind of girl puts up with being "the bit on the side" for that long? Did she not realise that he was treating us both badly? How did she fool herself into thinking sharing a guy with another girl who didn't know it was happening, was ok? What did she think every time he left her to come and see me, or when he got phone calls from me when she was there?That is exactly the same story as mine, cept it was my girlfriend who cheated for months and months with another guy. What I want to know is, how do such people get to sleep at night? :|
Instant Sam
31-Jul-02, 11:03am
been fucked over by a woman, and trust me, there's been plenty of them
Indeed.
Plenty of ladies out there doin it on the sly - i've been a victim.
Originally posted by tim-e
That is exactly the same story as mine, cept it was my girlfriend who cheated for months and months with another guy. What I want to know is, how do such people get to sleep at night? :|
And more impotrantly, how do we get revenge on them and make sure they never sleep again? XD
miss apple
31-Jul-02, 11:16am
I've said no to a guy before, knowing that he was in a relationship. I had this wonderfull warm & fuzzy thought that women need to stick together, and if I didn't give into this guy and allow him to cheat, then maybe a girl somewhere will reject my future boy's advances and make him realise what he's doing.
I've since realised it doesn't work that way. If I say no to the boy, he's only going to go to someone else to cheat with. I should have said yes to the offer when it was given! I missed out on a good shag for a warm & fuzzy heart...and where has that got me? no where so far!
littleblonde
31-Jul-02, 11:16am
If the 'other' person, be it male of female is aware that the person they are with is in another relationship, they are as much to blame as the cheater.
I have liked guys who have been in relationships, but the second I found out they were taken, whether or not I knew two cents about the person, I backed off completely. I have been cheated on and it hurts like hell, especially when people around you know and they don't tell you.
The worst situation I found myself in...
There was a girl who I was fully aware was after my partner since before we had gone out.
I was completely devoted and faithful to this guy.
I was extremely good friends with his cousin
The cousin knew he was treating me like absolute shit (which he was) and was telling me to walk away because he knew I was going to get hurt but he wouldn't tell me why because he didn't want to destroy me.
I heard her name mentioned innocently in a conversation one night when we were out and for some unkown reason, it all just clicked. Went to his house the next day, confronted him, he lied, then he backed down. He had nfi how I had worked it all out.
Told me he respected me too much to keep f**ing me around.
Then continued to f**k with both of us. She apparently thought we had broken up, which to this day I don't believe.
I can't even begin to tell you how much it hurt. Eventually ended up walking away from the situation. I still loved him, but there is no way that I was going to waste good love on someone like that.
Now - I am in a really good relationship and I am really happy
He ran into one of my closest friends and mentioned that he hasn't had a proper 'girlfriend' for ages to which she simply responded "Yes *insert name here*, that's because you're an arsehole".
Couldn't put it better myself really.
miss apple
31-Jul-02, 11:20am
Originally posted by littleblonde
He ran into one of my closest friends and mentioned that he hasn't had a proper 'girlfriend' for ages to which she simply responded "Yes *insert name here*, that's because you're an arsehole".
BWAHAHA :lol: :lol:
reminds me of sex & the city on Monday night. :lol:
Instant Sam
31-Jul-02, 11:35am
I missed out on a good shag for a warm & fuzzy heart...and where has that got me? no where so far!
do unto others etc.
miss apple
31-Jul-02, 11:49am
Originally posted by Instant Sam
do unto others etc.
I know. That's why I said no in the first place. What I mean is that you can 'do unto others' but it's not very often that they 'do unto you'.
The responsibility lies with the person who is in the relationship....
Esteban
31-Jul-02, 12:11pm
fark, call me weak hearted or summit but how do you live with yourself when you get jiggy with another girl over a prolonged period of time behind your g/f's back? Does guilt not eat at these people?
I find the best way to get muchos punani is to become a porn star, then hey, it's all in a day's work. 8-) [insert wah wah peddal Shaft-esque music]
Pukestar
31-Jul-02, 12:42pm
I can't believe all the people willing to forgive and forget with their partners (who have betrayed a massive trust), who hate the other 'third' person, who IMHO might not even be at fault.
It's a cop out people. Just your way of allocating blame, whilst still being able to love your partners.
In most cases the other person is probably being led on, lied to or fuked over as baddly as you by the kunt that's cheating on you.
It's just like people in abusive relationships who refuse to place the blame where it should fairly rest. On the shoulders of their partner who has made a decision to betray their trust. The third person might have a moral obligation to society, but your partner has an obligation to you. If they are willing to break that then they aren't worth it, and I believe are firmly to blame.
Here endeth the rant......
hey, just wanna say jaffa PMed me and I don't want to slap her anymore, I just wanna give her a big internet huggle and go back to getting it on in a kinky, man to man style with her significant other.
juuuuust kidding. ('bout slamming one to her man. the hugs and forgivness are for real.)
gotta go change my sig again now
/me pouts. I like being moody and terse :(
Fantasy
31-Jul-02, 02:04pm
Originally posted by bumba
If u find yourself wanting to be with someone else,then ur obviously over the relationship ur in,so get out of it,simple. XD
My point exactly!!!
phatman
31-Jul-02, 02:14pm
reading this thread has made me decide not to remain friends with my cheating ex. I can't believe how much of a chump I've been. Fuck her. Lying heartless bitch.
Originally posted by Crazybob
He got fked up long term from the beating though sop I feel pretty bad about it.
At the end of the day though, he hurt me alot more than I hurt him.
you complete c unt.
It was your girlfriend's fault for cheating on you and being slutty. This guy was just copping a root, and you fuck him up long term. He hurt you? like fucking hell he hurt you, your lover hurt you, lied to you, betrayed you. He could have been any guy on the street. He could have been me. If he didnt know you or even know about you, how can you possibly say he hurt you.
As I said, you complete c unt!!
you people who want to take it out on the unknown rather than your partner are FUCKED IN THE HEAD!!! Don't you think about anything or do you just act on animal impulses?
You love someone, they fuck someone else... dont be fucking daft! get rid of the unfaithful lover, you know they are going to do it again one day, stop flogging a dead horse and turning a blind eye!
As for Bumpy wanting to hunt down and kill the bitch - sure you would want to, but would you? or would you cut your man's dick off while he sleeps one night? What happens when you find out the poor chick never knew the guy she was with had a homicidal jealous girlfriend? Oops spose it wasnt her fault after all?
c'mon people, think!
Do you think its worse to hurt someone physically or emotionally?
Originally posted by tim-e
That is exactly the same story as mine, cept it was my girlfriend who cheated for months and months with another guy. What I want to know is, how do such people get to sleep at night? :|
I think it comes from not really giving a shit.... sex doesn't mean anything to some people, so perhaps they don't worry about it as much, and hence are able to sleep at night.
I think beating someone up is much worse than cheating on someone. Agree? Disagree?
Originally posted by Jiminy
The responsibility lies with the person who is in the relationship....
I dunno for sure right, but once I heard that in Spain, if a man finds his wife in bed with another man, and he kills her, that it's defensible.
If, however, he kills the man.... then its straight to the gallows for him.
I figure the man in this scenario isnt breaking any agreements he made with the husband, he isn't betraying anyone etc etc.
could be rubbish of course, but Its interesting.
Originally posted by miss apple
I should have said yes to the offer when it was given! I missed out on a good shag for a warm & fuzzy heart...and where has that got me? no where so far!
Everybody dies. You may as well enjoy it while you can... go miss apple!
MrPants
31-Jul-02, 06:01pm
Thankyou Desai
here i was filtering through this thread thinking, how in DJ RUSH's name could everyone just let this undeserved violence in crazybob's earlier post go by without comment.
Personally if I was the guy in question the police would have been there in a flash and i would have sued the arse of you.
Violence is the answer to nothing. And what's more good on you for giving him the chance to defend himself by going around in numbers. Pffft.
I hope you are through this psycopathic stage, and i hope you have realised just how lucky you are not to have a criminal record (or maybe you do!) and indeed the error of your ways. However you saying he hurt you more than you hurt him suggests otherwise, given he was fucked up long-term (your words). Poor guy probably cant even feel safe in his own house anymore.
littleblonde
31-Jul-02, 06:10pm
I remember once reading something about adultery being the number one cause for murder (this was a few years ago so I may be incorrect in this)....
Except in America, where stupidity is the number one cause ;)
Adulterous people aren't worth the time of day. Anyone who betrays your trust and confidence in that way didn't deserve someone of half your calibre to look twice in their direction in the first place.
stuntgorilla
31-Jul-02, 06:24pm
It's simply a matter of respect people......some have it, some dont.
Life is too short to waste any longer that to say FUCK OFF to a cheating partner. There are plenty of decent human beings out there who will appreciate your love a lot more. But I realise that all this is easy for me to say having never been cheated on.
Originally posted by stuntgorilla
It's simply a matter of respect people......some have it, some dont.
Life is too short to waste any longer that to say FUCK OFF to a cheating partner. There are plenty of decent human beings out there who will appreciate your love a lot more. But I realise that all this is easy for me to say having never been cheated on.
... as far as you know at least
**stir**
Originally posted by lush
And more impotrantly, how do we get revenge on them and make sure they never sleep again? XD I like the way you think ;)
Heist9000
01-Aug-02, 01:22am
I love on jerry springer how the partner thats been cheated on is always all like "Hes mine byatch!" "You're comin home with me tonight". More often than not they attack the cheatee rather than their partner. Wierd.
GQ Smooove
01-Aug-02, 01:27am
A bachelor looking for a bachelorette. Stay single.
"But all of a sudden though, just through the smoke, is your bird laughing and joking with a bloke?
Ain't just that either, as she moves closer, initiating what looks like they're lovers - he's tonguing her.
All rage sweeps up through your torso, your moreso ready to go over and show him who's man; football fan style.
Leave it in the can for a while, cos even as they smile you still got choices.
Don't listen to them voices, cos at the end of the day you may just have caused this....so leave the forces"
- The Streets
;)
SpaceMonkey
13-Nov-02, 10:15am
Definitely the cheating partner who's at fault. As others have said the "third party" isn't breaking any bonds of trust with anybody, they're just getting their end away! UNLESS the third party knows (or worse still is friends with) the person being cheated on. If that is the case then crucifixion is too merciful for either party. People who f*ck their freinds partners (and poeple who f*ck their partners freinds) are the lowest of the low.
VanBuurenisGod
02-Jul-07, 01:46pm
I am surprised how many people would go after the third party.
If your partner cheats on you, it is pretty simply their fault.
Even if the other party seducted them, and did everything in their power to get in their pants, your partner needs to have the courage on their convictions to say no.
nice bump god and i like the way that after 5 years you just continued on with the conversation...:lol:
Even if the other party seducted them, and did everything in their power to get in their pants, your partner needs to have the courage on their convictions to say no.
i like this word...its like a mix between seduced and abducted...:thumb:
spice_of_life
02-Jul-07, 03:01pm
did you just call him god? :-0
cheating -- it's pointless. why not just dump your girlfriend/boyfriend and have sex with someone else? and then someone else again, and again!
WickedAngel
02-Jul-07, 03:06pm
the person cheating is the person responsible for cheating. You cant blame the other one even though if they know they are helping them cheat (still a pretty shitty thing to do) BUT the person that is the one doing the cheating is the main scum bag. Getting "seduced" is bullshit. You only can LET yourself get seduced. If you make a comitment to someone keep it or don't be with them!
misspiggy
02-Jul-07, 03:39pm
what happens if you spring them in a seemingly innocent situation, he (and she) says they're just friends (and she introduces herself).
yet your "boyfriend" has never mentioned he has a close girlfriend that he talks to before.
WickedAngel
02-Jul-07, 03:46pm
bit suss to me
fluffybunny
02-Jul-07, 04:34pm
No matter how you look at it cheating is fucking wrong, it happens when a pathetic girl or boy has no respect for themselves or the other person...
it is the lowest thing someone can do, no excuses!!!
as you can tell it makes me so mad ....its just sad that people can be so selfish and mess with other peoples emotions..
but i am a strong beleiver in Karma and baby it will come back to bite you in the ass!!! :lol:
SpaceAgePimp
02-Jul-07, 04:40pm
That's what happens when you let the little head make the decisions instead of the big head ;)
spice_of_life
02-Jul-07, 04:48pm
That's what happens when you let the little head make the decisions instead of the big head ;):lol: .. then again, if the little head is pointing to twelve, and the big head has had much wine, what time is it?
misspiggy
02-Jul-07, 05:00pm
either in my situation she was genuinely a friend or she is a compulsive liar like him.
I'm thinking maybe she knew about me, so was prepared when/if they get confronted was was happy being the chick on the side?
ilovetofeeldirty
02-Jul-07, 05:01pm
:lol: .. then again, if the little head is pointing to twelve, and the big head has had much wine, what time is it?
Self love time.....anytime is time for self love time though.
fluffybunny
02-Jul-07, 05:03pm
:lol: .. then again, if the little head is pointing to twelve, and the big head has had much wine, what time is it?
time to have a wank
ilovetofeeldirty
02-Jul-07, 05:03pm
either in my situation she was genuinely a friend or she is a compulsive liar like him.
I'm thinking maybe she knew about me, so was prepared when/if they get confronted was was happy being the chick on the side?
You have your own thread for your thoughts....go back there.
http://www.inthemix.com.au/forum/showthread.php?t=199372&page=6
misspiggy
02-Jul-07, 05:05pm
lol sorry, double whammy.
both situations apply - but I'll keep in my own thread :(
One will usually turn the anger & frustration on the one that they have been replaced with. The girl! As you think that such a girl would have to be quite cheap, with little to no respect for her self.
why? assuming the other girls knows? or hasn't been lead to believe that the relationship is open?
I would be angry at the "other guy" but I'd be far more hurt and betrayed at my g/f
BootyCamp
02-Jul-07, 06:02pm
I'd be angry with the partner - the other party is partly to blame (if they knew about the situation at least), but the partner CHOSE to cheat.
Seamus Ryan
02-Jul-07, 06:31pm
One will usually turn the anger & frustration on the one that they have been replaced with. The girl!
That can only be the case if the girl/guy is actually aware that the person they are seeing is cheating on their current partner to be with them.
I was seeing a girl towards the end of last year, and the bitch never told me she had a boyfriend (and i had no idea because neither my friends or her friend knew each other)
Although, i didn't be a dick. I told her to break it off or go get farked. She took too long to decide, so i told her to go get farked.
Saw her on a few occasions out of pure coincidence, she is still the same and i have never looked back.
Jimmy255
02-Jul-07, 06:46pm
The blame depends on the situation, like people have mentioned. If the third party has no idea it's just not fair to blame them. If they do know and still participate willingly then they are equally to blame as the cheating person.
That is assuming you know all these things as truth. Obviously people are probably quite inclined to lie in these situations.
agvicsa
07-Jul-07, 01:23am
If only the lifestyle ITM channel gets like this
http://youmakemetouchyourhandsforstupidreasons.ytmnd.com/
The Brain
07-Jul-07, 01:56am
Chris is a wanker yeah oh i know he made me tough his hands. D. d. d. d. d.
Ive noticed that guys who cheat don't really have a standard when it comes to the girls they cheat with... If there was to be a check list it would be...
1. Has groin I can trust with
It isn't really a surprise though. If they don't respect their own girlfriend/boyfriend it fits to not really care about what the other person is like. ( I know I'm generalising)
SpaceMonkey
12-Jul-07, 01:26pm
Ive noticed that guys who cheat don't really have a standard when it comes to the girls they cheat with... If there was to be a check list it would be...
1. Has groin I can trust with
It isn't really a surprise though. If they don't respect their own girlfriend/boyfriend it fits to not really care about what the other person is like. ( I know I'm generalising)
Lol too true, I have a mate who porks ugly slappers in toilet cubicles even when he's dating someone fairly attractive.
charming friend!
I am an extremely loyal person and the betrayal i would feel if my boyfriend cheated on me would mean that I would break up with him the second I found out.
Even if I tried to forgive him I know that my feelings on the subject would ruin our relationship forever.
With regards to the other woman. SUre, I would hate her, but my ANGER would be directed at him
SpaceMonkey
12-Jul-07, 01:49pm
To be honest he doesn't do that shit any more, he kinda grew out of it.
BOKSOFROX
13-Jul-07, 02:09am
If you love somebody you should set them on fire.
All future heartache fixed ^___^
Matty_neal
17-Jul-07, 12:34am
charming friend!
I am an extremely loyal person and the betrayal i would feel if my boyfriend cheated on me would mean that I would break up with him the second I found out.
Even if I tried to forgive him I know that my feelings on the subject would ruin our relationship forever.
With regards to the other woman. SUre, I would hate her, but my ANGER would be directed at him
i'm exactly the same way. I get angry at the fact that my girlfriend has been with other guys before she was with me. If i was cheated on, that would be the end of it. Cheating is one of the lowest things you could possibly do. the thought of it is literally worse than the thought of passed away loved ones. way worse. never thought it would be tho.
Lambretta
17-Jul-07, 05:08pm
i'm exactly the same way. I get angry at the fact that my girlfriend has been with other guys before she was with me. If i was cheated on, that would be the end of it. Cheating is one of the lowest things you could possibly do. the thought of it is literally worse than the thought of passed away loved ones. way worse. never thought it would be tho.
If you seriously get angry at the thought of your partner having a life before she met you, you deserve to be fucking cheated on.
What a moronic attitude to have.
So should she have issues over the fact that you spoke to other people before you met her?
Grow the fuck up.
borrisGLOWSTICK
17-Jul-07, 06:06pm
:lol: :lol: :lol:
fucking ZING!
pwnt
ianwil1976
17-Jul-07, 06:07pm
I get angry at the fact that my girlfriend has been with other guys before she was with me.
Please tell me this sentence is one big typo?
:lol: That's the dumbest thing I've read today.
ImagineMusic
17-Jul-07, 07:13pm
Lol too true, I have a mate who porks ugly slappers in toilet cubicles even when he's dating someone fairly attractive.
so reminds me of this guy glen, who got a blowie from a tranny outside a club (and she wasn't even attractive), despite having a really nice girlfriend (he didn't believe us it was a tranny until the next day, so ZING!!!)
i personally have something against him cause i was standing with my boyfriend when introduced to him (ergh he's sleezy even when not drunk), and he goes 'nice norks?!?!?!' (who the fuck says that?!?!) and tries pulling my top down in front of my then bf :crazy:
this guy is in his 30's now , and go figure , gee i wonder why i hear he's still single :rainman:
Optimus Rhyme
17-Jul-07, 07:22pm
Ummmmmm..... what??
You act like ignoring the cheater and focusing on who they cheated with is the norm. Since when? Surely the responsibility lies with the person who is in the relationship, though the person they cheat with isn't completely innocent either... unless they don't know, of course.
but yeah jaffa your question is just bizarre to me... "how quickly we forget"?? who? Who forgets? What on earth are you talking about?
And why are guys categorized as the cheaters, and girls as the ones they cheat with? Is this always the case? hey, wait a minute... you wouldn't be merely basing all of these sweeping generalisations on.... your own experience, would you?? :-0
big eddie
17-Jul-07, 07:23pm
A mate of mine always says "just because there's someone in goal, doesn't mean you can't score..."
:lol:
littlemissnrg
17-Jul-07, 07:32pm
i'm exactly the same way. I get angry at the fact that my girlfriend has been with other guys before she was with me. If i was cheated on, that would be the end of it. Cheating is one of the lowest things you could possibly do. the thought of it is literally worse than the thought of passed away loved ones. way worse. never thought it would be tho.
So many things wrong with this post :rainman:
You might be better off with a blow up doll than a real girlfriend! Are you related to Miss Piggy by any chance? :P :lol:
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