Single or taken?

[bumpmek]

With all the talk on ITM dating, relationships, thought i'd post a lovely poll to see who's single and who's taken out there on ITM.

[Crazybob]

I'm single an lovin it!:-D

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

i'm married to the lord ;D

[lush]

I don't know what I am, those options are too clear cut. I'm in that deliciously exciting state of thinking that maybe... he could... be my boyfriend? I mean, I think he likes me, and I like him, so...?
:p

[likeatiger]

single and irresponsible

[Leasie]

Originally posted by lush
I don't know what I am, those options are too clear cut. I'm in that deliciously exciting state of thinking that maybe... he could... be my boyfriend? I mean, I think he likes me, and I like him, so...?
:p

Ohh Lush i love that stage!!!! I sometimes wish that stage could last forever.. that and the first few weeks of a relationship. :blush:

[mr progre55ive]

Originally posted by SPOKEYDOKEY
i'm married to the lord ;D

AAAHHHH hahahahahha im sorry i just read that and cracked up! Everyone in the office is starring at me! AH!

Oh yeh ...... im single too!

poor me :( *sigh*

[Tristan]

single

[parko]

Being single is da shiz nit!! :)

can get upto more mischeif!

parko:-*

[rabbler]

none of the above.

im a player:p

[littleblonde]

Very newly single :(

[Bella]

what spokey said :lol:

bella :) happilyBALLnCHAINED

[berniebern]

Originally posted by Tristan
single

Tristan...why the small font saying you are single? Are you in fact taken but can't say it ;)

[djsimonmann]

Why do you have to be with a partner and under the thumb ?

Have you never been in a relationship where both parties are equal ??

[Tax Invoice]

Why does being in a relationship signify being "under the thumb"?
{:-(

[fUnKy1]

Ummm...i think you need a third option for my situation :|

[rabbler]

Originally posted by littleblonde
Very newly single :(

live it up babe, live it up!!

after 2 months of singledom, i couldnt be happier:)

[breaksRbest]

very recently single again.:(

*sits back and waits for the offers to roll in*

[Beaker Fish]

Very much attached and loving every minute of it. Didnt think that things could go so perfectly! Thought I was happy before....but nothing prepared me for this. :blush: :blush:

Spokes matey, your new avatar scares the hell out of me. Freaky!

[bumpmek]

Originally posted by fUnKy1
Ummm...i think you need a third option for my situation :|

Oooooh do tell.... :lol:

[littleblonde]

Hmm.. that is the first time I have actually said that since it happened. Working on it, we will see what happens.

[Funksta]

Single and loving it over here!!

[fUnKy1]

Nothing exciting bumpmek - we're just on a break, having a "time-out" to sort some shit out.

It's a weird place to be - not entirely single, not entirely taken.

But it's nice too - to be free and single, without the distractions of potenital suitors ;) , and other "stresses" that come with being single (yes, there are many). It's refreshing.

f1

[jabbajaws]

you need an extra option for "not to sure on my status", meaning yeah, i've just started seeing some one, but its the early stages yet and i dont want to become to attached but but also would like to.......
oh, but if you do run into my girl, yeah i am taken.
JABBAJAWS :tripping:

[FunkStu]

I am in a relationship with someone who knows me well enough to know exactly how to make me happy and am getting regular sex with a person who, due to plenty of practice, knows exactly how to press my buttons. In addition, I am able to rely on that person to be there for me whenever I need the love and support only a lover can provide.

Now, explain to me again why being single is so great...

[neilfahey]

Very single and very happy being single... It's been a while now too.
This is almost turning into a dating service. We've had the profile thingy's (my name's neil and i like long walks on the beach... :meh: *spew*) and the 'post a picture of yourself' thread and now we're finding out who's single here! Well I've never actually tried the whole internet dating thing but I guess if you don't look at it like that (ie. as "internet dating"), it could always happen. I've met a couple of good people off ITM so it wouldn't be impossible to meet a babe I really like... Not exactly a searcher though.

[Nars]

I think the "under the thumb" in this poll should be taken in the context that you would do anything for your partner - not that you are controlled by them

And BTW single

[SwishFish]

How about a "taken but happily so and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world" option..thats the one i chew, chew, chews....

[Tristan]

Originally posted by berniebern
Tristan...why the small font saying you are single? Are you in fact taken but can't say it ;) Hate to dissapoint you bern, its just the amount of ugly as fuck losers with girlfriends i see, I have to hang my head in shame.

[redstars]

single ;D

[peakin bunny]

Single and not loving it.. atm its very depressing{:-( :~(

[Crazybob]

Originally posted by FunkStu

Now, explain to me again why being single is so great...

Compared to some of the relationships I've been in, eating boken glass would be great...so bein single is a total cake walk..:)

[littleblonde]

f1 I think we are both in very similar situations .. good luck with it :)

[Syk Syd]

11 months of singularity & completely happy.

i once felt i needed to be in a relationship to be happy & complete
wrong...
independant & living for the moment where my actions only impact my own being, not anothers ego.

that said i still beleive in love,I just dont beleive in marriage.

;)

[rabbler]

Originally posted by FunkStu
Now, explain to me again why being single is so great...
coz variety is the spice of life ;)

[Delerious]

Funk Stu ... gotta agree wid ya ...

guess its horses for courses .... single suits some, couple suits some ...

I'm just finding out what its like to be single again after a very loooong relationship ... will get back to you if I can find 'whats great' points ....

cheers

del :o)

[fUnKy1]

Originally posted by littleblonde
f1 I think we are both in very similar situations .. good luck with it :)

You too lb!

PM me if you need some moral support (or just someone to bitch and moan to) - it's not the easiest situation to be in. But like i said, it can be really refreshing. You can spend some time with yourself, without having to think about boys, dating and all that. Consider it "you" time.

Goodluck :)

f1

[mr progre55ive]

Originally posted by breaksRbest
very recently single again.:(

*sits back and waits for the offers to roll in*

Dude with an Advar like yours i dont think you'll be gettin many offers!!!! :)

[Funksta]

Originally posted by peakin bunny
Single and not loving it.. atm its very depressing{:-( :~(

Don't worry peakin bunny being single has its ups and downs like everything else... you just have to learn to stop depending on other people to make your life seem fulfilled and go out and have a ball being single. After all, you have the rest of your life to be an old married maid and only a short time to enjoy the single life!!

[Jedi]

I'm taken :(

Have mixed emotions though, cause I'm happy with my gf and she is a heaps top chick.

but at this age I wish I was out there messing around as there are so many mad looking chicks out there.

Especially the chicks I meet from work, I'm always serving mad looking chicks at general pants trying on low jeans :P

[Esteban]

Originally posted by Funksta
Don't worry peakin bunny being single has its ups and downs like everything else...

not the same ups and downs as when you're gettin jiggy with someone tho :lol: ;D

But true, don't rely on other people for your happiness.

[lush]

Originally posted by jabbajaws
you need an extra option for "not to sure on my status", meaning yeah, i've just started seeing some one, but its the early stages yet and i dont want to become to attached but but also would like to.......
oh, but if you do run into my girl, yeah i am taken.
JABBAJAWS :tripping:

hmm, very similar to my post... you're not... I mean, it's not me that you're... nah, couldn't be
;)

[Jiminy]

Single.

It has it's good and bad points.

So I guess he called then lush or is it someone different?

[Funksta]

Originally posted by Esteban


not the same ups and downs as when you're gettin jiggy with someone tho :lol: ;D

But true, don't rely on other people for your happiness.

aah, true.

However you don't have to be in a relationship to get your regular dose of ups and downs !!

[scratchin]

being single = my phone bill being cheaper :lol: but really i get to do what i want when i want to and not have to tell someone what i'm doing where i'm going and what time i'll be home. just worry about my own shit and that's it. i see my friends with there girlfriends and when the girlfriend wants to go home (even though my friends don't want to, because if they don't they will be in da dog house) they have to leave as well. i'm just after someone that will want to stay out to the wee hours of the morning, if she's feeling tired i wouldn't mind walking her to a cab to make sure that she is ok and was able to still do the things i love to do

tristan i know exactly what you are talking about. you think how the hell did he get her ???

been shingle for x amount of months less than a year and more than 6 months. i'm having the time of my life, going to system, TT next week :-D and nearly going out every weekend !!!

[feeble]

After 5 years of continuous back-to-back relationships, I've now been single for *gasp* a whole year. And loving it. I've learned more about myself and what I'm capable in the past year than I ever thought possible.

I still have little flings and affairettes and random pashes, but I've found that the merest thought of commitment makes me run for the hills these days.


Maybe I'm just not meeting the right people...

[berniebern]

Originally posted by Jedi
[BEspecially the chicks I meet from work, I'm always serving mad looking chicks at general pants trying on low jeans :P [/B]

You bitch.

I used to love it when i was told to work at parra GP's.

[lush]

Originally posted by Jiminy

So I guess he called then lush or is it someone different?

good memory jiminy! :) yep, he called, a few times :blush:

[Jedi]

Originally posted by berniebern


You bitch.

I used to love it when i was told to work at parra GP's.

Beniebern, your spining me out.

I work at GP's in parra, and we went to the same high school :tripping:

p.s. working at gp's is the best way to pick up, my gf used to get the shits that i work there :lol:

[rittin]

Originally posted by Beaker Fish
Very much attached and loving every minute of it. Didnt think that things could go so perfectly! Thought I was happy before....but nothing prepared me for this. :blush: :blush:

[/COLOR]

Tru Dat.......... :blush: :blush:

[Spitchen]

I'm with Stu and Simon, being with someone don't mean yer under a thumb. Far from it in fact. I love my girl more than anything and wouldn't change anything! :)

[B Ja]

Originally posted by FunkStu
I am in a relationship with someone who knows me well enough to know exactly how to make me happy and am getting regular sex with a person who, due to plenty of practice, knows exactly how to press my buttons. In addition, I am able to rely on that person to be there for me whenever I need the love and support only a lover can provide.

Now, explain to me again why being single is so great...

Same here funkstu.

Although I loved being single and learnt plenty bout myself, nothing beats what I have with my boy.

[dancingirl]

Agony aunts R US!!

I have been both... or maybe that should be all 4? Happily single, happily attached, miserably single, miserably attached.

Each one has their good points, and of course which category you belong to at the mo is going to influence your response.

I was single for a year... no, a bit longer, excluding flings and "affairettes" as Feebs has so eloquently described those dangerous liasons! But nothing that I would call a relationship.

I am now blissfully attached, and wouldn't change it for anything in the world. But I think that having experienced both (or all 4?) sides of the coin allows you to appreciate the good things in life.

And, oh yeah, what Stu said. ;)

[jootsiejuice]

I live my life and love my girl.....


If I'm ever single again (which I highly doubt at the moment) I'll live my life and drink more.......

[a_618allstarr]

http://www.earmark.com/newpix/bigred.jpg

Was that the sort of button you were talking about Stu? 8-)

[REAL NAOKI]

single!?:-0 :-D :P :p

[Chrysoula]

I'm a taken woman. I really hate the term under the thumb, because my relationship is based on trust so we do pretty much as we want things with our friends, on our own or as a couple. There's no way I'd stay in a relationship with someone that was possesive and didnt let me do my own thing, and that as if I felt I needed to answer to them 24-7.

I like the fact that I have someone to come home to, and the fact that I don't have to skank up and go looking to pick up, cost too much on alcohol.

Being in a relationship isnt as bad as what people make it out to be, in my situation, I have the best of both fields

[a_618allstarr]

That signature is ridiculous!

[FunkStu]

With your polished techniques, Naoki? Quite frankly, I simply cannot believe that.

[REAL NAOKI]

YEAH,THAT WAS LIMITED TERM ONLY.THANKS.:-D

[Russssss]

Single
But got the hots for another ITM'er !!!
hahahaha
She no's who she is !!!!!!!!!

[ChrisC]

Originally posted by FunkStu
I am in a relationship with someone who knows me well enough to know exactly how to make me happy and am getting regular sex with a person who, due to plenty of practice, knows exactly how to press my buttons. In addition, I am able to rely on that person to be there for me whenever I need the love and support only a lover can provide.

Now, explain to me again why being single is so great...

So how is Mrs Plamer FunkStu? :P

I haven't been in a 'relationship' since January and it hasn't really phased me much. But sure there are occasions every now and then when you miss the companionship. Though, everyone who I have met lately and I have been interested seems to be in a relationship already.

[Jedi]

been with my gf for about 2 years and 8 months now.

no one is under the thumb in my relationship.

the only thing is i let my gf do as she wants, she can anywhere with anyone she wants to and i won't stop her as i trust her.

but when it comes to my turn to go out with the boys you can tell she gets upset, she can't tell me not to go. but she still gets upset a little bit.

one stage she was heaps insecure, but she has gotten heaps better now.

question for you ladys out there, what makes your gf's go insecure?????

[Fantasy]

Have been single for 11 months now. Ex boyfriend back in the picture. Still trying to keep strong as he wants to very much work on building our relationship again. Only problem is he has told me he has completely broken up with this new girl as he still thinks about me all the time - not sure if he is lying to me. What are your opinions, should I ask him (who has lied to me before) or ask the girl herself? Please help . . .

[FunkStu]

Mr Rule of Thumb on Exes:

If you've broken up with them for a reason, it's probably still a good reason.

[dancingirl]

Again, what Stu said.

Also, if the problem is lying - what makes you think he's hesitate to lie to you again? Lying is the most deplorable of relationship sins, if you don't have trust then you have nothing.

[lush]

if you ask the girl, then you've already shown you don't trust him, so no matter what her answer is your relationship is on shakey ground. without trust you really go nowhere, and end up feeling bitter and paranoid

[bumba]

Originally posted by Jedi


Beniebern, your spining me out.

I work at GP's in parra, and we went to the same high school :tripping:

p.s. working at gp's is the best way to pick up, my gf used to get the shits that i work there :lol:

Would i have bumped into u Jedi? I worked for Home up until a couple of months ago,i was always coming in and talking to u guys,leaving flyers behind and giving u guest lists...sound familiar???

Now,back to the thread...TAKEN!!! :blush: ;D For the first time in over 4 yrs,and its been a little weird getting used to it! hehehe Esp when i start to really miss seeing him,it freaks me out a bit (theres a very good chance he'll read this....hey babe!!! Mwwaaah!) :lol:

But its nice,i feel content,AND,i still feel like myself,we're on equal ground...u know when u meet someone and go totally overboard and elevate them to a status they dont have,and u ...lose a part of urself sorta...does that make sense? Its not until u snap out of it that u realise that wasnt really u...anyway,i used to do that,but its different this time.Ive been myself and he likes what he sees,and thats a really good feeling :blush:

[miss apple]

I'm single...have been for a while. Sometimes I love it, sometimes I hate it. Although last time there was a prospect I completely freaked at losing my freedom to do whatever I want. I guess that meant I still want to be single.

It does bother me a lot though that in sooo many of the 'happiness' threads that most people post about their partners as being the one thing that makes them so happy. 'snuggles in bed', 'holding your loved one', 'walks on the beach with your loved one' blech!!!

it's possible to be happy and single you know!!!

though 3 and a half years of it gets a little boring. wouldn't mind a change soon....

[REAL NAOKI]

Have been single for 11 months now. Ex boyfriend back in the picture. Still trying to keep strong as he
wants to very much work on building our relationship again. Only problem is he has told me he has completely broken up with this new girl as he still thinks about me all the time - not sure if he is lying to me. What are your opinions, should I ask him (who has lied to me before) or ask the girl herself? Please help . . .


you should forget bout this fucks i think.man!such a playboy yeah?:lol:how many girls he got?:P

[Kazi]

Taken - and couldnt be happier!!!!

#happy sigh#

[Fantasy]

Originally posted by lush
if you ask the girl, then you've already shown you don't trust him, so no matter what her answer is your relationship is on shakey ground. without trust you really go nowhere, and end up feeling bitter and paranoid

Thanks for the advice. I agree with this, but it makes me angry to think he is telling both of us different stories as to keep a hold on us. It is truely not fair for us both!

[lush]

well fantasy, maybe you should meet up with the girl, have a coffee and a good chat about what a peckerhead the guy is. so you don't end up with the guy, but hey, you got a new friend!

[macamahoozie]

I'm only recently single, however my relationship wasn't a great one, i wasn't his girlfriend, but we did everything that people in relatoinship do. We were best friends but there was a lot of history. Its been about 2 months, and it still hurts. I miss him a lot. I can't wait to be on the other side of all this.

Not even thinking about looking.

[spanky]

Taken and loving it.......

[littleblonde]

I can't imagine a guy ever having me under his thumb (I'm too big to fit there anyways :P ).. I am a very independant girl. Relationships are about trust and honesty. I couldn't stand to be in a relationship where I didn't trust him to go out on his boys nights and have a good time and he didn't trust me to do the same. You need to stay your own person and keep your own interests and friends as well as spend time with each other.

f1 - thanks for your support but there is not a nasty thing I could say about this boy. I think he is one of the most decent, genuine, loving boys on earth. If on the other hand, you need a 'virtual' shoulder, feel free to pm me :)

Single and taken both have their good points, but, when it comes down to it, I think I would rather have someone to curl up at night.

[Jedi]

Originally posted by Kazi
Taken - and couldnt be happier!!!!

#happy sigh#

A girl as pretty as Kazi isn't going to stay single for long :)

[bumba]

Originally posted by miss apple


It does bother me a lot though that in sooo many of the 'happiness' threads that most people post about their partners as being the one thing that makes them so happy. 'snuggles in bed', 'holding your loved one', 'walks on the beach with your loved one' blech!!!

it's possible to be happy and single you know!!!



Agreed...no denying that someones partner obviously makes them happy,but....maybe its in the way its worded,u can take different things from it...im confused now!!!

Well,this is what i was thinking b4 i thought too much:

A lot of people see relationships/talk about relationships as the two people being two halves of a circle,and now theyre matched and complete (aaaaawwwwww!) But to be true to u,to be the person u r and have a relationship that is TRULY complete,u have to be a complete circle in yourself....make sense? Picture a circle made of two halves,a ring...now picture two interlocking rings...get it?

I was thinking that earlier cos a lot of people talk about finding themselves again or wanting to be their own person...i think theres a lot of single ring relationships out there.

Of course its possible to be happy and single ;D ,and if u cant be,u cant be happy in a relationship...i think thats what i was trying to say:?

[mr progre55ive]

Being single (like me) has its up's n downs! Mainly downs for me, seeings girls take one look at me and then run for the hills...

*sad sigh* :~(

[fUnKy1]

Fantasy, check your PM's.

[princess01]

I'm taken, married even, been with my fella for over 10 years now and I can't imagine living without him... so I guess I'm "under the thumb" in that respect, altho we get to be independent people too. It's absolutely mint.

[gleeker]

single and loving it. was in a pretty unhappy relationship for 2 years up until a couple of months ago, so now i'm really enjoying the time to myself. that said - as i was reading this post a spunky customer came in and asked me out to dinner - so i guess i'm getting the best of both worlds!!!! :blush:

[Jiminy]

Did you accept the invitation?

[marquis]

Well i guess I am definitely in the taken category! We've had time apart in different countries but that has always reaffirmed things for us rather than caused problems - well it does cause a few problems ;) but nothing too major!

From my own experience I think it's pretty vital to have a lot in common with your other half ie interests and opinions - think about how much time you spend with them, that's an awful lot of time if you can't have a decent conversation or discussion!

Sure there's lots of other stuff to do together but in our case at least we consider each other best friends first and foremost. It just so happens that we love each other deeply as well...but the friendship part is so important to us, it means we want to hang out together, listen to the same music (mostly) but also recognise that we need time with other friends too.

[LannaBaby]

i'm single, in the middle of what my friends i have termed "the dateable guy drought"

:(

[Funksta]

Originally posted by LannaBaby
i'm single, in the middle of what my friends i have termed "the dateable guy drought"

:(

aaw... come on lanna, there are heaps of us dateable guys around! you just aren't looking hard enough!!

[Polecat]

single and happy like that :D

[neilfahey]

word funksta!

[Classy Chick]

I am as single as they come...

Have been for 3 yrs now ...

I love it most of the time.. :blush:

[amilne]

has it been 3 years already:-0

me goes on honeymoon next month:-D

[tim-e]

taken, from afar ;)

[gleeker]

Originally posted by Jiminy
Did you accept the invitation?


indeed i did....i saw him out the other night and thought he was a hottie so....

[miss apple]

Originally posted by bumba
Of course its possible to be happy and single ;D ,and if u cant be,u cant be happy in a relationship...i think thats what i was trying to say:?

You're so right bumba!! I know what you're getting at :) Sometimes I think I've been single for this long because the universe is trying to make me learn this exact lesson before I meet someone. It's kinda working. Actually, it has worked. Almost too much the other way. Relationships don't really work out if one of the people is so used to their independance that it's difficult to let another person into their lives.

[Naked]

Single, most of the time I hate it, some of the time i love it. Truth be told, I haven't had a "serious" relationship, but too many mornings with a different girl, and now i resent it, for the first time I turned down a one nighter last weekend, am concentrating on finding the perfect girl for me :)

I agree with some one that posted on the thread, I want someone that parties till dawn, and doesnt drag me back home at 4am :|

It really sucks seeing some of my freinds happily together, I mean, its great, theyre happy, but its a reminder for me as well :(

O'well :)

[Kerazy Groover]

I haven't been in a serious relationship for over 2 years now.....had a few flings in that period....but they haven't developed into anything….

I must say for the first time in a while I feel totally comfortable being in this single phase.....at times I feel like I want a little lovin....but I think – eh I've got the rest of my life to be with that special someone - live it up now and enjoy the time with your friends! That's what I'm doing!;)

Gleeker - you lucky thing! You hardly ever hear of that happening!

[Daza]

Single ...

[dirtytrancin]

Originally posted by Jedi
been with my gf for about 2 years and 8 months now.

no one is under the thumb in my relationship.

the only thing is i let my gf do as she wants, she can anywhere with anyone she wants to and i won't stop her as i trust her.

but when it comes to my turn to go out with the boys you can tell she gets upset, she can't tell me not to go. but she still gets upset a little bit.

one stage she was heaps insecure, but she has gotten heaps better now.

question for you ladys out there, what makes your gf's go insecure?????

have the same type of thing happeneing here, but we have been together for a bit less time, about 1 1/2 years, but i would love to know the answer to the question that youasked. My guess is that it is not that they don't trust us, but they maybe don't trust everyone else out there... any thoughts?

[flip]

Very much taken :) But not under the thumb at all!

[Polecat]

question for you ladys out there, what makes your gf's go insecure?????

possibly....

1/ lack of self-esteem.
2/ lack of communication between the couple.

[krazy]

Taken taken taken.

All u singles - remember to have lots of fun!!! ;)

In my opinion, girls can be wary of their partner going out with the mates not because they distrust him but because they distrust the mates. I mean, there are a lot of guys (and girls) out there who just love to fuck up their friend's relationships for some unknown reason. So they drag him to strip joints, meat markets, etc where they then all proceed to get smashed and point out every hot chick they see to each other.

Like one guy said when I asked him why he never took female friends on boy's nights out: "I would never want any woman I know to see me behave like that." There is just a horrible kind of connotation to the phrase "boys night out" - even if what happens is totally innocent.

In that kind of atmosphere, the gf just has to wonder whether her boi WANTS to screw around, even if he doesn't actually do it. And if he wants to, how long before the circumstances are perfect (ie - just had big fight, just got TOO drunk) for the want to become the act?

Of course, its all a bit paranoid under many circumstances but if you don't trust your partner's mates (male or female) you are gonna feel a bit insecure about him (or her) spending time with them. After all - regardless of whether you trust your partner - can you trust anyone who is totally off their face? Nah - not really.

[BlueLightBulb]

single :P

[Lord Belial]

All alone...

*cue violin concerto*

[bigbubba]

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[NULL_Ptr]

Single unless my imaginery girlfriend counts ;)

[beebop]

i've been single my whole life and i'm not about to change now!! ;D

can a leopard change its spots? one day...... :P

[Sir Pimpsalot]

kinda single.

kinda not.

[Psycho_182]

why does everyone like being single?
i need someone to talk to, is there an adult-help-line?
joke!!!


single

[nicko]

as usual, bump concentrates on the hard-hitting issues :p

[unscarred]

single ... lets just say a very very long time ... and despising every minute of it.

[SpeedFrog]

Single.

Girlfriends are for fags.

[NismoR31]

Originally posted by SpeedFrog
Single.

Girlfriends are for fags.
you must be looking at the wrong kind of "girls" :)


i'd been without a g/f for over a year & hated most of it. i still had heaps of fun & everything but there was never someone there just for me. nobody to be close to. now i've been in a relationship for 5 months (it's going so fast) and although i miss her during the week, that soulful loneliness of when i was single is gone :) we don't put thumbs on each other, but she does try & take me hostage when i have to go home ;)

[MattD]

single and hating it

Matt D

[redambition]

taken... but he and i are too far apart to be under any sort of thumb. ;)

[triplejosh]

i been single for 6 months or something now ..
thats a record for me as i had two very long term
relationships (over a period of 4 years) before that.

the last "proper" relationship last year left me pretty
fuct thou (how can someone cheat after 18 months!)
but yeah, its all good now :D it only took me about
3 months to get over that one heheheheh.

you learn alot from relationships, but also learn alot
when you are single ...

and besides, who would want to go out with someone
in armidale, especially at college :P heheheh

-jjjosh-

[Heavens Angel]

Well im single:|
Every1 who says they r single and prefer it that way r in denial. it can b cool being single but its sooooooo much betta being with some1, u know that there is some1 who is thinking about u, that u have some1 to fall bak on, to talk to, some1 who cares about u and so on... Unfortunealty im not getting/experiencing any of that at this moment in time, but i am "working" on it.

[Bracko]

I'm waiting for bumpmek to ask me out ;)

[kermee]

Married... and loving every minute of it! :) We just celebrated our 2 wedding anniversary and I cant believe the time is going so quickly! Never have I had any doubts about him being someone I can spend the rest of my life with. He is my favourite clubbing partner too! :)

I think there can be some relationships where one partner trys to control the other, and it may only be in subtle ways. I guess a good relationship is somewhere you feel comfortable and you dont have to act like someone you are not. Trust is a good thing too...

Each to their own.

[DJSeb]

I'm married to ITM... *sigh*

<font color="blue"><b>seb</b></font>

[bumpmek]

Originally posted by nicko
as usual, bump concentrates on the hard-hitting issues :p

Got a pretty good response to this issue! :p :p

[Tristan]

A chipper chipper chopper
A chipper chipper chopper
A chipper chipper chopper
A chipper chipper chipper chipper chopper

[littleblonde]

Mmm... change my answer from yesterday back to taken....

Giving it another shot after talking through everything for hours and hours and hours (got to love brutal honesty with each other)....

Besides, both of us wanted to go on the holiday we have already booked to Queensland this weekend ;)

[neilfahey]

littleblonde: Good for you! But what a shame for all the single males out there.... Oh well

[mr progre55ive]

Originally posted by SpeedFrog
Single.

Girlfriends are for fags.

You have problems and i think you should have yourself checked! But thats just my personal opinion!

I hate being single , its f*cked! i hate it.....no one loves me :~(

[speshj]

[B][COLOR=purple]im single VERY single

its alittle depressing at times but as they say don't look for love...wait for love to find YOU!! i can't wait :blush:

[rabbler]

Originally posted by Heavens Angel
Well im single:|
Every1 who says they r single and prefer it that way r in denial. it can b cool being single but its sooooooo much betta being with some1, u know that there is some1 who is thinking about u, that u have some1 to fall bak on, to talk to, some1 who cares about u and so on... Unfortunealty im not getting/experiencing any of that at this moment in time, but i am "working" on it.
im not in denial, you're just insecure.. "some1 to fall back on"!?

atm im happily single [but not completey unattached]

[Gringo]

single and totally over it, its been good messing around but now I want someone to party with all the time, takers? :lol:

[Kazi]

Originally posted by Jedi


A girl as pretty as Kazi isn't going to stay single for long :)

Someone needs to get there eyes tested!
:p

[B Ja]

Originally posted by Jedi

one stage she was heaps insecure, but she has gotten heaps better now.

question for you ladys out there, what makes your gf's go insecure?????

Could be a number of contributing factors, such as;

Trust
Feels threatened by somebody else
self image
past experiences

And the list goes on and on.

If you give her constant reassurance it will pass with time.

[Minxie]

Originally posted by littleblonde
Mmm... change my answer from yesterday back to taken....

Giving it another shot after talking through everything for hours and hours and hours (got to love brutal honesty with each other)....

Besides, both of us wanted to go on the holiday we have already booked to Queensland this weekend ;)

Good luck LB - I hope it works out for you!

Me? I am happily seeing the most wonderful bloke in the world. We have been going out for over a year now and it is still bloody fantastic.

Being single is cool but being with someone you love totally and who loves you back is even better! :blush:

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

yeah minx, but can he remember your name? :lol:

[BustinBells]

BustinBells is a single girl!!
Love it too...I don't know how you boys struggle to find someone who will stay out all night...It's the boys i go out with who always ditch me, slack bastards...
I've learnt the hard way that all those you care for will inevitably (sp?) be taken from you, but thats life! :)

Keep Smiling :).

[feeble]

Girlfriends are for fags.

No, hun, wrong gender.

[ponsdale]

guess I should out myself as being single now that a couple of ITMers have taken in upon themselves as a project to find me a girlfriend.....

:blush:

[lyric]

i met my wonderful boyfriend through ITM....

maybe through this thread, some of you singles will end up finding someone through ITM too..... :blush:

[Minxie]

Originally posted by SPOKEYDOKEY
yeah minx, but can he remember your name? :lol:

Probably not !!! Thats why he has so many pet names for me! every time he forgets my name he just makes up a new one for me!:lol:

[jootsiejuice]

Originally posted by BustinBells
BustinBells is a single girl!!
Love it too...I don't know how you boys struggle to find someone who will stay out all night...It's the boys i go out with who always ditch me, slack bastards...
I've learnt the hard way that all those you care for will inevitably (sp?) be taken from you, but thats life! :)

Keep Smiling :).

I smile because I know this is not true.... don't believe the hype, love ain't a children's story, when the real deal happens it changes everything......

[breaksRbest]

If I could figure women out, I'd write a book and be filthy rich.

Can some of the girls please explain why you go out with assholes? Some of you even admit to it.
"yeah, I can't help myself, I'm always attracted to the bastards"

give me a dollar for every girl that has said that and I wont need to write a book to be rich.

btw - this is not directed towards all the 'taken' girls that say they're man is the perfect man. you obviously have the right idea.

[dragonballT]

taken.


hi sweetie :)

[Griggle]

BreaksRBest, maybe you should start posting on the Perth Forum your beginning to sound like most the guys there. :lol:

Girls don't go out with arseholes because they are arseholes. They go out with normal guys and call them arseholes afterwards.
We think they are arseholes because they are going out with chicks we like. ;)

From my experiance, girls go out with guys that ask them out. Not all the guys that ask them out, but it's usually a prerequisite. :P

[central_smurf]

i was single my entire life till i met my bf

but as much as it worried me, you learn to just have a fun time, and enjoy life (but you are constantly looking)

as soon as you stop looking, it comes along and bites you on the arse, and im so glad it did

during the week is difficult, but the thought of just knowing that you share a deep connection with is amazing... and i too cant believe how fast time is going



PONSDALE - you should have no worries finding yourself a girl... you are quite a catch :P

[Sherbos]

being single isn't very fun.

[ponsdale]

Originally posted by central_smurf

PONSDALE - you should have no worries finding yourself a girl... you are quite a catch :P

:blush:

thanks cs.... I'm all embarrased now!

:blush:

[zoltar]

Married to the beautiful Zoltress...... and we have an even more beautiful girl :):):)

Personally - I think being single again would be just too hard

[SpeedFrog]

I'm disappointed that some people seem to have missed the irony in my post.

In case you can't already tell, I was joking.

[scratchin]

i'm just waiting for the right one to come along. given up looking so waiting for someone to come up to me. but is there someone for everyone in this world :~( :~( :? :~(

[Fantasy]

Thankyou for being so nice and honest f1 . . .

Very much SINGLE!

[feeble]

Speedfrog, I was wondering how long you would take to bite back :lol:

[SpeedFrog]

Well, it seems that I just got what the French like to call "smacked down".

Originally posted by breaksRbest
Can some of the girls please explain why you go out with assholes?

Confidence is attractive. Sometimes, it's difficult to tell the difference between somebody's that just confident, and somebody that's a dick.

[B Ja]

Originally posted by SpeedFrog


Confidence is attractive. Sometimes, it's difficult to tell the difference between somebody's that just confident, and somebody that's a dick.

v true

[littleblonde]

Why are women attracted to arseholes??? Because they have the courage and the confidence to say 'No' to us. If a woman is allowed to do whatever she wants in a relationship, then she probably will, and end up walking all over the guy in the process without realising it until the guy ends up resenting her power in the relationship.

If you are equals, and have the courage to say no to each other sometimes, or say "Hey, you know what, maybe we should do this instead" it gives you the starting point to come up with a compromise which will suit both parties, instead of one party having their own needs met all the time.

Then again, sometimes girls just prefer guys who don't treat them well. Why is beyond me... give me a nice guy any day :) (I've had my fill of arseholes)



I

[sql_chick]

taken...until september anyway ;)

[central_smurf]

Originally posted by ponsdale


:blush:

thanks cs.... I'm all embarrased now!

:blush:


no need to be embarrased sweetpea - its the truth!

[badllama]

I been hijacked by a lovely boy *sigh*

Hellooo sweetie! :-D

[feeble]

I was having this exact conversation with my friend the other day... both of us have a long and illustrious history of Arsehole Dating, despite being fairly worldly and sorted chicks.

My friend, who is older and wiser than I, pointed out that men with arsehole qualities (ie. arrogance, "issues", emotional baggage etc) also often have that certain special "something else" that sets them apart. These men have the capacity to either work out their issues and go on to be great, successful human beings or remain in their dickhead rut forever.

She concluded that we recognize the potential in these guys and choose to base the relationship we have with them on that, until it all falls apart.

Well, it sounded plausible to me...

[tazman]

I am attached (at the heart).

I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and she is without a doubt the most amazing person in the world to me.

She is funny, witty, loving, caring, sexy, sweet, supportive and above all she knows and understands me.

This last 12 months and 25 days have been nothing but special.

She enriches my life and makes me feel loved.

Everyday we are together is amazing. Everyday we are apart (which is very few), makes me appreciate her all that more!

She is my Super Julius, my Bat Julius, my Clam Chowder, my Clammy Clam but more than anything else......she is my Minx!;)

Tazman

[Griggle]

In an effort to stop this thread from continuing on this "all guys with girlfriends are arseholes" route, I'll give you all the link to a thread in the Perth forum that covers this.

A thread about nice guys and whether or not they finish last.......or even start the race. (http://www.inthemix.com.au/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=22979)

Seriously is the Perth Forum being trawled for forum ideas at the moment because there are a lot of similarities between whats being talked about here now and what was being talked about two weeks ago there. :P

[Funksta]

Originally posted by breaksRbest
If I could figure women out, I'd write a book and be filthy rich.



They have written that book!!

Its called why men don't listen and why women can't read maps.

I am actually reading it at the moment and it offers some great insights into the female brain! (oh, and it also provides you with many excuses to use too!)

[krafty_x]

Single.

*sigh*

k_x oxo

[breaksRbest]

griggle, I wasn't at all trying to imply that all guys with girlfriends are arseholes (I think I would have been lynched if I said that)
I think that alot of the posts prove that they're not ALL bastards.

It's just that alot of girls go out with arseholes, knowing full well that the guys an arsehole to begin with. As Feebs was eluding to, I think it may be coz the girl thinks they can change the guy fot the better.

Aswell as that, I meet sooooo many awesome girls that deserve sooooo much better than the bloke they're attatched to. Everyone else can see it but they are blinded by the good looks, nice car, good job or whatever. But he's still an arsehole.

on the other hand, guys are notorious for choosing partners based on physical qualities alone. But I dont know many guys that continue a relationship with an outright bitch (or brainless twat for that matter).

now I'm just crapping on.;D

[FunkStu]

Girls go out with guys thinking "I can change him"

Guys go out with girls thinking "I hope she never changes"

Therein lies the problem.

[krafty_x]

Shit triplejosh.... people cheat on each other after 35 years and kounting.

Monogamy is not against the human kondition but it takes work.

k_x oxo

[Beef Jerky]

Girls get married thinking "i'll never have to give a blow job again"

Guys get married thinking "i'll be getting blow jobs all the time now"

I don't see the problem :p

[Esteban]

talk about a lonely hearts club. Fear not, the singles do have a partner - Mrs Palmer her 4 daughters and a fat son :lol: ;D

[littleblonde]

If you go out with someone you go out with all of them, faults and all, and you have to accept them and love them for it anyway. If there are a thousand things you want to change about them, don't go out with them in the first place. People should not be expected to change for their partner, it is completely unfair!

[neilfahey]

Originally posted by Esteban
talk about a lonely hearts club. Fear not, the singles do have a partner - Mrs Palmer her 4 daughters and a fat son :lol: ;D

OI! I like to think of it as 5 daughters - one of them may be fat but if Mrs Palmer had a son he wouldn't be my partner...:lol:

[mr progre55ive]

Originally posted by SpeedFrog
I'm disappointed that some people seem to have missed the irony in my post.

In case you can't already tell, I was joking.

you mean i was meant to laugh....oh....ha..ha....err....haa!

Not funny dude....

[mr progre55ive]

Originally posted by Beef Jerky
Girls get married thinking "i'll never have to give a blow job again"

Guys get married thinking "i'll be getting blow jobs all the time now"

I don't see the problem :p

hahahahahah now thats a joke speedfrog!

hehe love your work Beef Jerky....Classic! :lol:

[Jedi]

Originally posted by Kazi


Someone needs to get there eyes tested!
:p

well you looked nice in that pic, you were the chick in the white singlet weren't u?

[mr progre55ive]

she looked damn fine to me jedi!!!

I think Kazi doesnt know her own potential :P

[breaksRbest]

I'll stick up for ya SpeedFrog, I thought it was pretty funny.
funny ha-ha, not funny weird.

btw - gotta agree with Jedi on that one, a girl like Kazi should carry a stick to beat away all the offers she must get. and I think more than a few people agree judging by comments in the 'post your pic' thread

[Jedi]

Originally posted by mr progre55ive
she looked damn fine to me jedi!!!

I think Kazi doesnt know her own potential :P

Cheers Mr prog,

there you go kazi now do u believe me :)

[neilfahey]

Optometrist said not too long ago that I've got 20/20 vision - She's spunkalicious!! :P

[meandarkdirty]

Not really sure. I've spent an awful lot of time lately in this state.

[triplejosh]

Originally posted by krafty_x
Shit triplejosh.... people cheat on each other after 35 years and kounting.

Monogamy is not against the human kondition but it takes work.

k_x oxo

yeah... your rite about that,

its good that its happened to me now, so at least next
time (if i ever let myself fall in love again), ill hopefull see
the danger signs....

-jjj-

[SpeedFrog]

Originally posted by mr progre55ive
hahahahahah now thats a joke speedfrog!

Yeah, okay, whatever. http://matt.secondaryfusion.net/images/rolleyes.gif

[redambition]

well i am very much taken :D and happily so.

re: the asshole debate...

i think some of it is the "im the bad boy and don take no shit" appeal. i know i have all too often fallen for the bad boy and been horribly burnt in return.

[Kinna]

Very much single now for the past 11 mths!

Previously was in a r'ship for 6 yrs and decided I needed out (wasn't ready for marriage). Being single has been an experience have met alot whankers and a handful of nice guys. Yes I do miss the hugs, watching movies, romantic dinners and weekends away but I have so many memories that it keeps me being this way. I got in a r'ship straight after I broke up after but realised I wasn't not going to get myself into something I just got out!

Now I'm having fun! Spending time with my g/fs and own my own and not having to worry about a winging bf. Not interested in any r'ships at least for a long time.

[Heavens Angel]

Originally posted by rabbler

im not in denial, you're just insecure.. "some1 to fall back on"!?

atm im happily single [but not completey unattached]

Insecure.. pffffft

[REAL NAOKI]

kinna....i love your avator.thats cool.;)

[N4TE]

Single. I walk funny. apparently that's some kind of crime against sexuality. *shrugs* guess I'll go back to blowing my income on quality snot, mid-week holidays and chartering boats. got two weeks away on a 45 foot yacht sorted out for my 30th birthday, the last 1/4 oz of my hash, an 8 ball of tom farley, three backpacking sluts and two of my best mates. Yeah being single sucks like a two buck hooker with chipped teeth. :lol: :lol: :lol:

[K_Hole]

So, no one can tell by the way you walk, that youre a womans man - no time to talk?

[Lambretta]

Taken, well and truely.

I have to agree with Nars, that being under the thumb means that you'd do anything for someone else rather than you not having a choice in the matter.

[Iain]

the closest thing i have to a relationship is the girls i talk to in video games :(

[jumbo]

why

[jackster]

Single and mostly not happy about it.

Would be nice to have someone to share everything with but very difficult to find the sort of person I want to be with who is willing to share me with my DJing.

I work all week at proper work and then pretty much all night every Friday & Saturday, then sleep all day Sunday and start again on Monday

Have tried to combine the 2 both here and in London and it hasn't worked...the girl has always (after initially saying they know what I do and am cool with it) asked me to cut down or stop DJing to spend more time with them.

I really wish it could be different but experience has taught me it's a choice between my DJing or a relationship and I'm not ready to stop DJing yet so I guess I'll carry on being lonely.

Thankfully I've got so many good friends around me here now it's not all doom & gloom...but some one to cuddle up with would be nice.

Jackster :(

[jackster]

Originally posted by FunkStu
Girls go out with guys thinking "I can change him"

Guys go out with girls thinking "I hope she never changes"

Therein lies the problem.

You've never said a truer word Stu.

Therein has always lain my problem anyway.

Jackster

[Jiminy]

Or maybe it is because you are just too fussy Jackster. I seem to remember you posting about the fact that you will not consider being with a girl if she has ugly feet....I only noticed because people tell me how ugly my feet are all the time. :p

[jackster]

Jesus...that's a damn good memory you've got there Jiminy! I have quite small feet for a bloke so have always had this aversion to girls with big feet yes!

Apart from that I don't think I'm too fussy!!!! :lol:

And getting less fussy as time wears on! :p

Jackster

[sailormoon]

Single... and wouldn't have it any other way! :D

[CandyRaver]

Sailor, you've obviously not met the right guy yet :p

[Kazi]

Originally posted by jackster
Single and mostly not happy about it.

Would be nice to have someone to share everything with but very difficult to find the sort of person I want to be with who is willing to share me with my DJing.

I work all week at proper work and then pretty much all night every Friday & Saturday, then sleep all day Sunday and start again on Monday

Have tried to combine the 2 both here and in London and it hasn't worked...the girl has always (after initially saying they know what I do and am cool with it) asked me to cut down or stop DJing to spend more time with them.

I really wish it could be different but experience has taught me it's a choice between my DJing or a relationship and I'm not ready to stop DJing yet so I guess I'll carry on being lonely.

Thankfully I've got so many good friends around me here now it's not all doom & gloom...but some one to cuddle up with would be nice.

Jackster :(

Mabye you just havent found the right girl??
My boyfriend dj's weekends, uni full time, and works one day a week so us finding time can be difficult -and yeah sometimes it sux when he has to play - but I would never ask him to quit for me, rather just try and spend as much time as we can - dont loose hope becos they are ladies out there can handle it (even though it can get tough)
Hope it works out for you
:)

[tim-e]

Originally posted by redambition
well i am very much taken :D and happily so.awwwww... :blush:

[inhale]

Third option.... I'm single, and therefore under my own thumb, or is that my own thumb under me?? Sorry that was bad!

I think you make your own life what it is. You don't need someone to make you happy. Make yourself happy! But of course its nice to have someone to be happy WITH!

[danaele]

Taken by the most amazing person I've ever met

*swoooons*

[spang]

I am single and not that happy about it. There have been many opportunities whilst out on the town but i am always in the music mode and can never tear myself away for long enough to have a conversation with someone.

Here is a typical conversation when i am out:

Person to me: Hi, how is it going? R u having a good night?

Reply: yes. ( and gets back to dancing ).

Other person walks off while i am still dancing.

Music is ruining my love life. Maybe i should head back to the pub scene and some AC/DC.
On second thought, maybe not. I will just have to try harder. Wish me luck.

:p

[rittin]

Originally posted by tazman
I am attached (at the heart).

I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and she is without a doubt the most amazing person in the world to me.

She is funny, witty, loving, caring, sexy, sweet, supportive and above all she knows and understands me.

This last 12 months and 25 days have been nothing but special.

She enriches my life and makes me feel loved.

Everyday we are together is amazing. Everyday we are apart (which is very few), makes me appreciate her all that more!

She is my Super Julius, my Bat Julius, my Clam Chowder, my Clammy Clam but more than anything else......she is my Minx!;)

Tazman


Get a Rooooooom.... :-* ;)

[rittin]

Originally posted by jackster
Single and mostly not happy about it.

Thankfully I've got so many good friends around me here now it's not all doom & gloom...but some one to cuddle up with would be nice.

Jackster :(

That's no good Jacko. :( :(

I'm hopefully bringing a gang of beautiful babies to your debut at home, take your pick bra ;D

P.S. - Worse comes to worse, i'll cuddle up to you mate ;)

[Grumpy]

I don't understand the question.:p

[lincoln]

Taken, and been taken for nearly 5 years...and before that about 4 years...and before that...2 years...somehow, I manage to not be single for too long...I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to be single at this age...but then there is nothing wrong with my relationship to run away from...and I need to be careful, I post under my real name...silly me! :tripping:

I find that I rarely look, it just happens, whenever i have looked nothing has eventuated.

Generally speaking though, apparently, I'm not normal anyway. I never fight with my partner, never argue, just trust and work things out...but rarely does anything need to be "worked out", as they're discussed before they get out of hand...not that they ever get out of hand....sounds logical, but appears it's not normal to not fight...i've been trying to pick one for a few years now...*sigh*, just not working! hehe.

- Lincoln

[Grumpy]

Seriously, I'm blissfully taken, but that doesn't stop that chemistry thing happening from time to time with others. Can really do your head in. Can really do your head in. Can really do your head in. Can really do your head in. Can really do your head in ... :tripping: :tripping: :tripping: :tripping: :tripping: :tripping:

[innA]

Taken by the most amazing person I've ever met

same as me :p

[stealth]

Congrats to all those who are not single and happy, good for you!
Thats the way it should be!
Me? I'm single..probably will be for awhile
It's good most of the time, but I still love being in a relationship too!

Right now I'm living life not worrying too much about another half!;)

[stealth]

Hey Bump, by the way..what's your situation? Do tell!!

[littleblonde]

Ok.... not only am I *at* work on a Saturday (bad enough) but my whole weekends plans have been thrown out of wack and I am back in the ranks of the singles, and this time for good.

:( Here we go again........

[feeble]

LB- don't fret girly, being single is rather excellent once you get used to it.

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

welcome to the fold lb, keep your chin up and enjoy the lack of responsibilty towards others ;)

[miss muffett]

Single's ok lb. It's good to learn that you can rely on yourself and be self sufficient again.

Chin up babe, single life can be heaps of fun, so don't worry.

[littleblonde]

I don't look it but when it comes down to it I am a pretty tough cookie, and I have an awesome bunch of friends so it should be all good :|

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

then stop yer whingein :lol:

[triplejosh]

if yer single and you know it clap your hands ....

:)

*clap clap*

[Mini Freak]

my girlfriend just dumped me after 2 years.....i am not too happy either..being single sucks bigtime........get together with me lb ;)

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

clap clap :lol:

[trolleydoll]

just be careful you don't acquire the clap . . . I'm sure there are meds for that anyway, if not - OFF to the clinic :lol:

[Nardo]

im very much single.

there have been oppoprtunities to change that status, but the older I get the pickier I become.

[factive]

I'm single... but i have kids to 13 different women... ;D


yeh i know unlucky number...anyone like to make it 14?

[littleblonde]

Ouch mini freak, sounds messy :(

So, who wants to go dancing??? ;)

[triplejosh]

"dancing and armidale" dont mix.

:(

[factive]

Whats cracking LB? :P

[bigbubba]

TOO SINGLE TO LONG... tonight I'm going to attempt to change that ... :blush:

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

well be sure to enjoy them less well known laws of nature bigbubba, have fun :lol:

[miss apple]

Originally posted by Nardo
im very much single.

there have been opportunities to change that status, but the older I get the pickier I become.

me too

[REAL NAOKI]

yeah,im single.have a good life have a kit kat.:tripping:

[mulder]

Originally posted by miss apple


me too

you must be confident..

single; just to obsessed with other things- not priority #1 at the mo.

[bigbubba]

TAKEN PEOPLE LIVE LONGER - I WANNA LIVE LONGER:lol:

[Tranceologer]

single and livin my life. 8-) 8-)

I always get my friends who aren't single telling me how lucky i am that I'm not going out with anyone, and yet they say that it's good to have someone. :tripping: :tripping: What the...

[stama]

officially been single for 1 week after breaking up with my gf last sat nite after 2 yrs

and so far i would say it aint anything special being single!

[REAL NAOKI]

but my friend say "man!naoki why you are single?why dont you wanna get someone to have fun with???are you gay?so,you can get boyfriend then" like this.then i say "im not gay im streight.yeah i will i will". actuarlly not "i dont",i think "i cant".
dont know i just dont know........need more confidence???i got confidence for other things though.
anyway,people been single is got some reason.maybe wanna success with business or wanna achive dreams&wants more freedam.if we got someone who share with our life,thats realy having fun but may we cant achive the dream&may be lost our freedam.
some people after 30 or 40 then meet someone,some people after 70 then meet someone.some people married when they are teenagers.
anyway,i think being single is not negative thing,positive thing.if you wanna being single you have to be tough.
me?dont know......but im not weak enough so,after get weak i mean mentally,ill find someone who support me.
;) ;) ;)

[trolleydoll]

U is strong ReAL NAOKI
U and me, we be one happy singularity :p

[luaplocke]

Im 31 ,and single...only ever had one girlfriend..I am the lone wolf,and i do what i like, when i like.:lol:

[Esteban]

ITM = lonely hearts club.

Don't fret folks, there's always mail order!

I'm enjoying my freedom at the mo'. The trick is to keep busy. Or in some cases, just get busy ;)

[bigbubba]

Single is good:D

[REAL NAOKI]

trolly!!!!!:lol: WE ARE "ITM SINGLE CLUB MEMBER"!!!!!!!!

HOW TO JOIN????

1.YOU HAVE TO BE SINGLE

2.YOU HAVE TO BE DEEPLY MADLY SINGLE

3.YOU CANT BUY CD ALBUM.YOU MUST BUY CD SINGLE.

4.AT TRAIN STATION."HEY!WHERE YOU UP TO?" "YEAH TO THE CITY FOR CLUBBING.........OH,I GATTA BUY TICKET"THEN, "EXCUSE ME!
SINGLE TICKET TO CITY PLEASE."

5.YOU MUST GO TO CINEMA WITHOUT FRIENDS.WHEN YOU GET INTO THE CINEMA.YOU MUST SIT INFRONT OF THE COUPLES,THEN EATS HANGRY JACKS.THEN MOVIE IS "LOVE ROMANCE MOVIE".

6.THIS MEMBERS WILL NEVER MEET EACHOTHER,WE GOIN SOMEWHERE BY YOUR SELF.COS THIS IS SINGLE CLUB.

7.WHEN YOU SLEEP AT NITE,PREPARE THE "HUGGY HUGGY PILLOW".THEN YOU SAY TO PILLOW,"LOVE YOU.....YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU"

MORE INFO:

http://ohmanrealyimsingleyoutoogodlovesyobutimsigle@singl emale.com passward to enter:haggy haggy pillow

[factive]

:lol: classic naoki

[redambition]

ya gotta BELIEVE!

but trawling is never a good look...

[smack bob]

Very taken :blush: but i think most know that already :)

[SPOKEYDOKEY]

Originally posted by REAL NAOKI
trolly!!!!!:lol: WE ARE "ITM SINGLE CLUB MEMBER"!!!!!!!!

HOW TO JOIN????

1.YOU HAVE TO BE SINGLE

2.YOU HAVE TO BE DEEPLY MADLY SINGLE

3.YOU CANT BUY CD ALBUM.YOU MUST BUY CD SINGLE.

4.AT TRAIN STATION."HEY!WHERE YOU UP TO?" "YEAH TO THE CITY FOR CLUBBING.........OH,I GATTA BUY TICKET"THEN, "EXCUSE ME!
SINGLE TICKET TO CITY PLEASE."

5.YOU MUST GO TO CINEMA WITHOUT FRIENDS.WHEN YOU GET INTO THE CINEMA.YOU MUST SIT INFRONT OF THE COUPLES,THEN EATS HANGRY JACKS.THEN MOVIE IS "LOVE ROMANCE MOVIE".

6.THIS MEMBERS WILL NEVER MEET EACHOTHER,WE GOIN SOMEWHERE BY YOUR SELF.COS THIS IS SINGLE CLUB.

7.WHEN YOU SLEEP AT NITE,PREPARE THE "HUGGY HUGGY PILLOW".THEN YOU SAY TO PILLOW,"LOVE YOU.....YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU"

MORE INFO:

http://ohmanrealyimsingleyoutoogodlovesyobutimsigle@singl emale.com passward to enter:haggy haggy pillow



i'm in shock, i've never read this much of anyone's posts, naoki, i read every bit and i'm in shock, funny, funny, funny, true, true, true

you reduce me to bad grammer naoki ;)

[trolleydoll]

Real NAOKI, don't you mean "ITM SHINGLEs CLUB?"

yeh yeh . . . we buy clinic and run it. But no date ok, even though Japanese boy kiss butt better than Korean boy .


bye bye_xx :)

[easeback]

:lol: Naoki....

The problem is you're all ugly as, with no personality.

[neilfahey]

Pleased to anounce I am no longer single - after 2 years or more of singleness! YAY! Met her at Lounge too - what a great place it is bringing together such marvellous like-minded people....

[pinkhelmet]

what is single?

[purplestar]

totally taken by one of the greatest guys ever. have been for 3 years and hoping for another 300 more!!! :blush: ;D

[Madam Sinecure]

Being single and being attached both have their merits....
I'm single at the moment and relishing it. For me, relationships are a pastime and I change my pastimes on a regular basis.

I don't believe there is only "one" person in the world out there for each of us, rather there are as many possibilities as there are people. If history is anything to go by, I'm going to have a variety of lovers for variable durations throughout my life - it would surprise me greatly if I ever settle on being with one person "forever" (or in one city for a prolonged period). It's just not me!!

I'm all for dedication, and I believe once you make a promise, it must be fulfilled. That said, I'm sceptical of marriage - a promise is a promise, and how can you make a commitment to love someone as long as you both shall live? You can't see the future so how can you promise an outcome?

The best wedding vows I ever heard are taken from the Balinese -"I will love you as best as I can for as long as I can". Nice and open agreement to do your best for as long as you can do it.

Doing what makes you happy without hurting others is the key the rest is just a case of formalities....

[stama]

some good points Madam Sinecure, but i think u may have trouble finding someone who feels exactly the same.

[LittleMissNawty]

im not single, dating another itmer but didnt meet him on itm.

Madam Sinecure, agreed with some of your stuff there, i really like the balinese wedding vows.

I hope to be with my current man forever. I take each day as it comes though. Shit does happen, stuff can go wrong. I was in a 7 year relationship that ended bad, i would never have forseen it to go so wrong in those first few months we were smitten with each other.

I also totally despise the traditional wedding vows also.

[littleblonde]

I would agree that single and taken both have their merits. As long as you have a great group of friends, single isn't so bad, can't say it is great, but it can be a lot of fun. It means you have to be more outgoing though, and meet new people etc as you haven't got anyone to kind of hide behind.

Taken is good as well, having the stability and comfort of someone you love, and knowing they feel the same about you. I guess one of the problems lies in identifying if it is just habit, or if it is love, but I guess if you are with the right person, you'd know.

[central_smurf]

still very much taken :)

we will have been together 6months tomorrow

[B Ja]

Don't worry lb, you're a spunk and I'm sure you'll have no prob's snagging someone even better.

And your long weekend dilemna is now sorted, you can do whatever the hell you like whilst down in melbourne.

[littleblonde]

Melbourne is going to be fun ;)

Don't get me wrong though, he is a great guy and will make a beautiful catch for someone. Unfortunately, I am not that person, but I know he will find someone special for him and I am sure at some stage (not that I am looking at the moment at all ) I will too.

and thanks B Ja :blush:

[beats]

taken.
loven it.

cept when i see some really hot chick who i wanna bone...
but that passes.

:P

[Funksta]

Well when this thread was started i was happily single but now i am in a relationship with the most gorgeous girl in the world.

We are actually best friends turned lovers and it is great having the best of both worlds. We can have a ball just sitting at my place with a DVD, a pizza and lots of silly behaviour or we can both go out and dance the night away next to each other knowing we have someone to go home and snuggle up with.

All i can say is that life is good but love is GREAT!