how many of you have...

[MeLiBu]

ok,
just been thinking about how many of my friends have slept with each others boyfriend/girlfriends.

how many of you have done it??

or on the other hand, is it wrong for your friend to have relations with one of your ex's???

all my friends go balistic if one of thier friends goes out with one of thier ex's but it's ok for them to sleep with thier friends partner...
fucked up!:tripping:

[bumpmek]

:| :| :|

[B Ja]

I slept with my ex boyf's cousin. That was pretty bad, and I'd never do anything like it again.

[miss apple]

It's not right. And it destroys friendships.

If the friend's ex and the friend were completely in love and they were meant to be together, I guess there's nothing you could do about it. But there's no reason for it when it's just a shag. It's just mean.

[lush]

In high school I went out with my ex's twin brother. But being high school, 'going out' meant 'be really embarrased to go anywhere near him' so we didn't even hold hands or anything.

[MeLiBu]

yeah high school is a totally different story.. that's where it started but my friends are still doing it.

and i always hate to say "come on, how fucken old are we?" but it's true... they act like they're still in school. it shits me.

there's nothign worse than having one of your friends come up to and say "hey dont tell anyone but im sleeping with such and such's boyfriend".... then you know and you're stuck in a tight spot.

and i know it might be bitchy but i always make the person own up or threaten to tell the other person...

oh it's all a mess!:tripping:

[breaksRbest]

It's an unwritten law IMO.

a few of my friends have had the most awesome g/f's and only stay with them for a couple of weeks. I've been very tempted to 'have a go' myself, but just couldn't do it.

I started going out with a girl a little while ago, only to find out that I'd slept with her sister in High School (about 10 years ago)
:blush:
we're not together anymore.:lol:

[littleblonde]

OMG Are you serious??? I would not/ could not EVER do that to someone I cared about. I love my friends more than anything and I would never betray them like that, regardless of whether the relationship was over or not.

[alakaboo]

We should make a post about the 'unwritten relationship laws' while everyone is on the 'agony aunt' bandwagon :)

[bumpmek]

Hello Alakaboo... u remember meeting up on Saturday morning out front of Subbies??? Or were you too scat?

[Funksta]

I used to date a girl a while ago, broke up with her and within a few months i found myself dating her younger sister.

Neither of them ever seemed to have a problem with it.

I am just not sure what their mum thought! LOL!

[Griggle]

If one of my friends wants to go out with one of my exes I wish em luck. I want my friends to be happy. I would feel pretty selfish, if I stopped them going out because they didn't want to hurt my feelings. I hope they feel the same way. :P

Of course it won't stop me telling my friends if she's a psycho-hose-beast. :lol:

[meandarkdirty]

Used to hang out with an interesting bunch of peeps who not only saw nothing wrong with this but saw it as a way of life. When you combine this with half the girls being bi and one of the guys also being bi (he convinced a couple of them to 'experiment' and be open minded) it made it a fairly interesting group dynamic. They really blurred the line between sexual liberation and outright perversion.

[phatman]

Went out with girl A when I was 16 and broke up with her a couple of months later. remained close friends.
Best Mate X slept with girl A shortly thereafter, I didnt really care much. Two years past and I met B.
Went out with girl B for nearly three years. She also became close friends with girl A and best mate X. Before we broke up X was trying to snare B. B didnt tell me about X's actions. Had a break to think about what we wanted to do and I went on holiday.

When on holiday, A, A's boyfriend Y, X, and B had foursome. P (phatman) oblivious.

P returns from holiday, B says she loves him and wants to work it out.

A few weeks later everything came out. P is pissed.
Now a year later B hates X as does the rest of the alphabet. A broke up with Y, because Y went after B's best friend E. E by the way went out with P's brother Q when P was with B.

V messy. V ugly.

P now single and happy ROFLMAO.

Glad I ditched those monkeys.

[Crazybob]

I think its ok as long as your friend doesn't have a problem with it. I wouldn't have a problem with my mate sleeping with most of my ex's, as long as they had the courtesy to say sumthin to me first..

[Hatchet_Harry]

I don't understand what phatman said...
:) :) :)

[littleblonde]

meandarkdirty....

So that's what was really going on at school huh? ;)

[scratchin]

this came up at a party once me and my friends talked about it. funny thing is that one of my friends is in a serious relationship with this girl who use to go out with one of my other friends. my other friend just laughs and says best of luck. but i would want my friends to tell me, i know one of them tried to with my ex and she said no because she cared about me to much, it got back to me after a month and i said it didn't worry me, but there was that level or respect between me and her. we are the best of friends now and are constantly talking to each other and moving out. but i never could go out with one of my friends friends. just would be too weird. something bad happens then that friend would have to pick to talk to most of the time.

[meandarkdirty]

hahaha...no not school friends. I forget there are people on this board who know who I am sometimes.

[mrfantastic]

I used to hang with a bunch of people and there was two girls in the group that were sisters. They ended up going out with about 4 of the guys (at different times), all the same ones. I thought that was pretty fucking weird, because the guys were wankers and used to tell everyone else about their bedroom shenanigans.

I wouldn't go anywhere near a friends ex. Me and my mates are alike so if they dumped them for some reason then I'm probably due to dislike them too.

And besides , it's scorched earth and you shouldn't go anywhere near it!

[phatman]

Sorry Hatchet. I didn't explain it very well.

What it comes down to is my gf (at the time) had a foursome behind my back with my best mate (at the time) and another ex-girlfriend of mine as well as her boyfriend. This happened while we were on a break and I was interstate. All the people involved kept it secret. I made up with the gf when I return from the interstate break and then I find out a few weeks later all this shit went down.

Then I got rid of them all and karma took care of the rest. e.g my "best" mate has no friends, and the other couple in the 4some broke up because of infidelity.

Dont go after friends bf/gf regardless of whether they've broken up or together, is the moral of the story. It just gets ugly.

[MadMike]

My mate went out with the older sister.
I went out with the younger.

[Fang]

If youve done it your a fucking low dog and nothing more.

Get a life and go find your own partner.

Youll get your own back.

[littleblonde]

I think with ex's it is a different story. I have no issues at all if a friend of mine wants to date an ex of mine, as long as there has been a reasonable amount of time etc and the relationship is well and truly over.

If I had a problem with it I would let them know, but with most of the guys I have been out with, seeing them happy with someone would make me happy, no matter whether or not the person who makes them happy is one of my friends.

If however, the relationship ended on bad terms, I would probably take issue with it... and then...there are the guys who I have dated who I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy...

[Jedi]

Would it be bad if you slept with your enemy’s gf :?

Or is that ok?

To me its sweet revenge XD Bwhahahaha

[Jose]

i think its different with each relation ship. if one of my mates was with a girl for a couple of years and then they broke up but my mate still liked her heaps no way would i even think about hitting on her. however if he was only with her for a couple of weeks and didn't give a shit then that;'s obviously fair game.

[redambition]

CAN OF WORMS!

if its an ex, they can go for it. i dont particularly lay claims to ex's..

HOWEVER, if its your best friend stealing your boy from under your nose, thats a different story.

*simmer*

[BlueLightBulb]

one of my 'best mates' tried it on with a gf of mine while i ducked up the road to the shops for a little while leaving the two of them alone. she told him no way then she told me what happened later on that night. needless to say i dont really speak to the tool anymore.

[Lambretta]

What happens if you know the person and they're an associate, but you don't really like them?

In this material world of posession being everything is shagging someone's partner a victory for you??

Do you get extra points for giving them herpes??

These are important points and they need discussion I feel.

[N4TE]

hear hear, lamb. we also require data on how many of you fine young hard bodied boogie gadgets are currently considering screwing around on your current partners. you can pm your mobile number to me, I'll be sure pass on the info to someone in a position of resposability.




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