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keith81
07-Feb-03, 11:46am
Y is it that love is meant to be the greatest feeling in the world but it really f*cks u up! :~(
agreed..
i havent wanted a boyfriend for the past 3 years
- single is to much fun..
keith81
07-Feb-03, 11:51am
3 yrs thats a far while....I guess Im bout to find out how much fun it is
SpaceMonkey
07-Feb-03, 11:52am
Originally posted by keith81
Y is it that love is meant to be the greatest feeling in the world but it really f*cks u up! :~(
I think it's walking on on somebody else balls deep in your girlfriend that fucks you up :meh: . Love's a bitch when things don't go to plan....
corporateboy
07-Feb-03, 11:55am
love hurts when it all ends messy and she won't even speak to you anymore and you miss her worse than anything else.
keith81
07-Feb-03, 11:56am
Yea thanx 4 that your such a gr8 help
giraffe
07-Feb-03, 12:04pm
I think it f's you up because you have to take a chance when you love someone and sometimes like all chances it backfires and unfortunately by then you've invested your heart and well yes it can suck.
But don't let it put you off keith there'll be someone even better for you next time. It obviously wasn't meant to be if she was so careless with your heart. OK I'm getting soppy.
It sucks having your heart broken thats for sure but its worth the risk.
OK wanna hug?
Originally posted by keith81
3 yrs thats a far while....I guess Im bout to find out how much fun it is
U will u just have to get past the bit that sucks first and then go out and have loads of good funny times with your friends.
El Scorcho
07-Feb-03, 12:14pm
Love will always be one of two extemes. Just enjoy it's up side, and try not to dwell too much on it's down side. You just never know what else lies around the corner...!!! :D
krafty_x
07-Feb-03, 12:32pm
No. Unrekwited love sux.
k_x oxo
Mellow D
07-Feb-03, 12:44pm
As I've said before...
Being in love can be the most wonderful thing in the world but unfortunately, someone that can make you feel so good also holds the power to crush your world completely.
Something I had to learn was to never give too much of who I am to someone because if they ever leave - you have to make sure you've still got some for yourself!
keith81
07-Feb-03, 01:32pm
Some very interesting points thanx ppl!;)
zorblart
07-Feb-03, 01:48pm
love is a myth perpetuated by insecure people who have found others who are similarly insecure and attached themselves to said people like a fucking limpet...
remember_p_g
07-Feb-03, 01:53pm
I gotta agree with krafty on this one - 'specialy when they just stop feeling whatever they were feeling - but u haven't yet. And when they're still in ur ife its so painful!
I think at least messy and hating each other means that you are forced to move on - its often easier to hate someone than to try and adjust to being 'just friends"
:-O
sql_chick
07-Feb-03, 02:32pm
I think love is one of the best things you can experience, despite the fact that I am going through one of the most horrible times at the moment, I would never regret giving it a chance.........
Tristan
07-Feb-03, 02:43pm
When isla realises the love we share, I will be fulfilled.
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Griggle
07-Feb-03, 02:45pm
Originally posted by Tarz
agreed..
i havent wanted a boyfriend for the past 3 years
- single is to much fun.. Right on, girlfriendless for about the same amount of time. It sucked for about 6 months but then I haven't looked back :)
Originally posted by remember_p_g
I think at least messy and hating each other means that you are forced to move on - its often easier to hate someone than to try and adjust to being 'just friends"
thats very true, is much easier when u can just hate, and forget all the stuff that made u want to be with them in the first place
but sometimes its worth the hurting to still have them in your life in some way shape or form
"ive got the blues, the reds and the pinks
one things for sure...... (love stinks?)
LOVE STINKS ! "
:lol: :lol: :(
alowflyingpig
07-Feb-03, 02:47pm
Originally posted by zorblart
love is a myth perpetuated by insecure people who have found others who are similarly insecure and attached themselves to said people like a fucking limpet...
Yeah, I agree with your line of thought on this one zorblart...
Its just a fucking myth, Love suxs.... Proud to be single for 18months
DjStalker
07-Feb-03, 02:59pm
it just means she wasnt the right person for you keith - don't worry - I have been dumped and trashed two times when I thought I was in love - only to find out it wasn't meant to be ...
BUT THEN
She just came waltzing through my office front door one day and my heart skipped a beat - I said to myself (in the famous words of Wayne from Wayne's World) "She will be mine - Oh Yes She will be mine" ...
And I have never looked back ...
Chin up Champ and don't go looking for love cause you will never find it like that - dissapointment hides behind that door !!!
MY TWO CENTS ANYWAYS
;D
sTALKa
keith81
07-Feb-03, 03:07pm
Thanx Stalker!:)
DjStalker
07-Feb-03, 04:37pm
No worries mate - its hard to see the positive when all you feel is the negative ..
Go out and get trashy - that'll make you feel better ;D
legless
07-Feb-03, 04:59pm
yeh i dont know from experience but hating i think would be easier.... im friends with my last ex and it really fucking sucks hearing her talk about this new boy....
not being in love sucks, but being sucked is lovely.
Holly Goodhead
07-Feb-03, 05:04pm
The worst kind of love?
Mutual love, but you can't be together.
When you are both crying and hugging and you don't want to let go, but you still can't stay together.
I think it's healthy to hate for a while. Then one day you'll wake up and find you don't care any more! That's the BEST feeling when that happens - when you've crossed into indifference. And from there, you can maybe rebuild a friendship. But don't rush the friend thing - it will only make getting to the indifference bit slower and more difficult. Bon chance!
Ausphinx
07-Feb-03, 05:05pm
Originally posted by SpaceMonkey
I think it's walking on on somebody else balls deep in your girlfriend that fucks you up :meh: . Love's a bitch when things don't go to plan....
So true:~(
Originally posted by Holly Goodhead
The worst kind of love?
Mutual love, but you can't be together.
When you are both crying and hugging and you don't want to let go, but you still can't stay together.
so so true.
know that feeling :(
unscarred
07-Feb-03, 05:39pm
Just a question, has anyone ever had love start from a situation where one person is in love with someone, but that other person is totally oblvious to it ?
i'd be interested to see if that happens in real life as opposed to hollywoods version. :?
Tristan
07-Feb-03, 05:44pm
Originally posted by Holly Goodhead
The worst kind of love?
Mutual love, but you can't be together.
When you are both crying and hugging and you don't want to let go, but you still can't stay together. Get me a fucking bucket. :-* :-* :-*
Holly Goodhead -- Want to suck me off?
Tyler Durden
07-Feb-03, 06:10pm
"It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all." -unknown
I think the word LOVE is abused way too much... people who find a girl/guy attractive and want to have sex with them immediately think that is love. That is not love.
To be able to truly 'love' someone, in the true meaning of the word, a person must become emotionaly attatched to that person, and feel true bliss when around that person and know everything is great because u know that person is alive.
Well, that has just been my experience and I believe my point is that you can't just 'love' someone instantly, you need to get to know the person as a friend as well as being in a sexual relationship or not. Most long term relationships are based on these important factors of true friendship, and then it can be classified as true love.
Love doesn't suck. Love's a fucking beautiful thing. It's people who suck, get it right.
No seriously- love in itself, when all is going right, is the most wonderful thing in the world. But when people devote their whole life to either seeking or maintaining that state, that's when it all gets ugly and messy. Most people have this idealised version of what love should be like... riding off into the sunset and living happily ever after etctetcetc. You fall in love with someone, give your whole being to them and assume that everythings going to be ok after that- love will keep us going and all that jazz.
But life don't work like that. People are flawed. They fuck up. Often. Love can't ever be like a movie or a romance novel or anything, because its and needs to stay grounded in reality... placing an overly large importance on it is just going to lead to hurt and crying into your beer. There are other things in life- your friends, your interests, your career, whatever. Finding happiness and enjoyment in these things instead of letting the pursuit of romantic love dominate is so important- so when love fucks up, the hurt is alleviated somewhat. As some crap eighties band once said, love is a drug- so use in moderation kids.
Aight way WAY too much ranting from me... back to my box now.
big eddie
07-Feb-03, 11:11pm
love itself is a chemical reaction in your brain designed to keep people together long enough to pop out some kids =)
also tyler I think that quote was from Alfred Lord Tennyson but that is just what my head says so it may be incorrect.
big eddie
07-Feb-03, 11:16pm
yup I still remember some year 12 english then =)
it was tennyson
From Alfred Tennyson's poem 'In Memoriam:21', 1850.
I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
zorblart
07-Feb-03, 11:24pm
Originally posted by big eddie
love itself is a chemical reaction in your brain designed to keep people together long enough to pop out some kids =)
also tyler I think that quote was from Alfred Lord Tennyson but that is just what my head says so it may be incorrect.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
love the realist perspective :P
Holly Goodhead
08-Feb-03, 09:39am
Originally posted by sofu
Holly Goodhead -- Want to suck me off?
Are u kidding? I've seen your picture in the gurnery - I'd say your best bet at getting any sucking action would be to start sweet-talking the vacuum cleaner
Stupid twat
Tristan
08-Feb-03, 02:32pm
Have you got space for another quote in your signature sofu?
<p align=right>unless...</align>
Tyler Durden
08-Feb-03, 03:46pm
Originally posted by big eddie
yup I still remember some year 12 english then =)
it was tennyson
From Alfred Tennyson's poem 'In Memoriam:21', 1850.
I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
cool ;)
Originally posted by Tarz
agreed..
i havent wanted a boyfriend for the past 3 years
- single is to much fun..
yea 3yrs is a while :(
Originally posted by Mellow D
As I've said before...
Being in love can be the most wonderful thing in the world but unfortunately, someone that can make you feel so good also holds the power to crush your world completely.
Something I had to learn was to never give too much of who I am to someone because if they ever leave - you have to make sure you've still got some for yourself!
This is so true! I've been with my boy for 4 years now and I love him more than anything and can't imagine life without him. :blush:
But I'd hate to think that I was missing out on what life's got to offer by being so attached, so we don't. You can't live in someone else's pocket and expect things to stay fresh, they won't.
Dirty Sanchez
08-Feb-03, 06:19pm
Love only sucks until you cum.
Then it swallows.
bella boo
08-Feb-03, 10:59pm
Life's a bitch and then you die.
That is all.
sHaRp-b0y
08-Feb-03, 11:10pm
Originally posted by DjStalker
Go out and get trashy - that'll make you feel better ;D
You sound like a very wise man
Dirty Sanchez
08-Feb-03, 11:26pm
Originally posted by bella boo
Life's a bitch and then you die.
That is all.
No, life's a bitch and then you marry one.
bella boo
08-Feb-03, 11:30pm
Originally posted by Dirty Sanchez
No, life's a bitch and then you marry one.
Woof
Dirty Sanchez
08-Feb-03, 11:37pm
Originally posted by bella boo
Woof
sit
staaaaaaaaay
bella boo
08-Feb-03, 11:38pm
* pant pant *
:lol:
Dirty Sanchez
08-Feb-03, 11:55pm
I know you're only after my 'bone'.
i'm going to go watch tentacle-rape porn. now THAT's love.
just kidding guys
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