I have learned that i should listen to my instincts; if she seems slightly possessive at the start do not give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she will ease up with time.
do not move in with her thinking she has no problem with your female friends
do not feel sorry for people are victims of themselves
do not smoke copious amounts of hooch in order to numb the voice in the back of your head telling you to get the fuck out of there before she starts removing your toenails
Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don't want