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Sounds more like an open relationship than truly "no strings attached" to me. Not that thats a bad thing though.


I don't think so. We never saw each other for any other reason. (I think we ate out once the entire time and it was only because there was no food in the house). We didn't meet each others friends. And sometimes would go weeks without speaking.
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(I think we ate out once the entire time and it was only because there was no food in the house).

I could totally make a witty joke about this, but my wits fail me.

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seems like he ate out more than once IMO ^

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Did anyone say fuck buddies? Should be a poll lol
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Does no strings attached pussy really exist? I mean, really?
Excluding prostitutes.

It does, but it's hard to find. Generally you need two people who have something that comes between them being able to date each other, thus ensuring that there is no potential for relationship.

I had a girl in the UK who I slept with every time I was back there, I'd be around for 3 weeks and see her for a good few nights. It was great fun, she was hot, the sex was amazing.
But we were never able to go out together so there was never an issue of "I choose to fuck you rather than date you". The choice was made for us.

I see a couple of people on here mentioned fuck buddies as being people they knew interstate - again a great divider in the fuck buddy v partner conundrum.

The issue that most people believe is the reason for "break-ups" in faux-NASP is that one person develops feelings for the other. And it could be true.

However I found that the key issue was that of control. One person would get frustrated that they were unable to affect when the hook-ups would occur, they still wanted to be seen as the most significant person to the other, even if it was as a fuck buddy. To be displaced as a favourite of any sort, to suffer any form of rejection, was the catalyst for issues with most of the women I saw purely in the "fuck buddy" mould.

Most people will find their fuck buddy suddenly doesn't attempt any contact once another fuck buddy/girlfriend has been acquired by you.
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As someone who is newly single I'm finding that I miss some things but life in general is kinda more chilled. That being said being without your best friend who is always there is kinda shit.
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It literally took me 15 years to find a ''fuck buddy". Thought I'd won the lottery. Only got 5 said fucks, and ended up with an STI that I'm STILL waiting to get rid of nearly 12 months later (yes, and ironically, she made me wear condoms, so go figure).

12 months without sex I can handle. You might ever call it the norm. 12 months without the POSSIBILITY of sex just sux.

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12 months to get rid of an STI? WTF did she give you, AIDS?

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12 months to get rid of an STI? WTF did she give you, AIDS?

He'd be waiting until he dies to get rid of that, ya mong.
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12 months would likely be Hepatitis, C I believe.
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12 months would likely be Hepatitis, C I believe.

I thought you were stuck with that once you got it too? Either way sucks to be Chad I guess.


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He'd be waiting until he dies to get rid of that, ya mong.

Maybe they only gave him 12 months to live?

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You also have Hep C for life

No vaccine. How the fuck do you people not know this?
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You also have Hep C for life

No vaccine. How the fuck do you people not know this?

I did know that (surprised fledz didn't though). My AIDS comment was a joke, I obviously know you're stuck with that one once you get it.

Either way I'm still kinda mystified as the what chad's caught that's put his tockley out of action for 12 months- must be one fucking raging dose of the clap.

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No, I don't mean if he has it. That 12 months is the point where if you are exposed to it, you're not cleared of having it until 12 months. I think that's specifically Hep C.

I skimmed his post, I thought he said he was waiting to find out if he had an STI, not that he already had one.
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If you are soul conscious, then no need of any one, You would like to be single as soul doesn't need anyone, But if you are body conscious, you definitely need someone who can fulfill all your body desires.
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What the fuck... nice hippie loner philosophy there.
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Let's just say e = mc² if you get the drift.

Thanks for the concern but I'm not going to die. You'll still have Chaddy to kick around for a while yet.

And by the way it developed 8 MONTHS after we last had penetrative sex so yeah go figure that one out.

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Let's just say e = mc² if you get the drift.

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Meh i reckon it's more a case of where you are in your life and what you want. At certain points you want to live it up, discover yourself, get some no strings attached action .... then at other points things change and it's about the one person.

I do beleive that if you are in the RIGHT relationship then that longing for the good old free and easy days shouldn't be there if you are totally happy with your partner. I see that longing to others and for excitement more as a warning sign that the relationship you're in is maybe not right.

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I do beleive that if you are in the RIGHT relationship then that longing for the good old free and easy days shouldn't be there if you are totally happy with your partner. I see that longing to others and for excitement more as a warning sign that the relationship you're in is maybe not right.


Speaking as someone who has been with the same chick for almost 15 years I reckon your on the money.
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accepting and dealing with the fact that you might live and die alone I think leads to taking more control / responsibilty for your own happiness, which then puts you in a good position to start from if you do find the right person
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wait... you're PREGNANT!?

Relatively pregnant, obviously.

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being single and in the beginnings of a relationship are awesome ie the sexy times.

but being happy in a relationship = best ever. imo.

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Am I the only one here who still self-abuses just as much when they're getting regular fucky fuck?

Might change when we move in at some point, I guess, but I honestly think I'll be a serial worm burper until the day I die.
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Am I the only one here who still self-abuses just as much when they're getting regular fucky fuck?

Might change when we move in at some point, I guess, but I honestly think I'll be a serial worm burper until the day I die.

Sex is good, but it's no substitute for the real thing.

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accepting and dealing with the fact that you might live and die alone I think leads to taking more control / responsibilty for your own happiness, which then puts you in a good position to start from if you do find the right person

Works for me

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Am I the only one here who still self-abuses just as much when they're getting regular fucky fuck?

Might change when we move in at some point, I guess, but I honestly think I'll be a serial worm burper until the day I die.

Haha I cant really say cause I haven't ever really had poon on tap, but nobody can possibly know how to touch me the way I do I cant even left hand wank, just feels too odd.

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^Dude the left hand fap is the best for a bit of variety... plus you gotta have the peace of mind that you'll still be able to get the job done if your right hand is ever out of action for a while

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I've never had a girlfriend but seeing as how i'm not getting any action I guess I could give it a go.
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I cant even left hand wank, just feels too odd.

I never used to be able to, but I'm a big fan now. Still can't do it properly if I'm using the old beanie to get off, but if he's rolled back and I'm lubed into next week...good times. Good times.
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^Dude the left hand fap is the best for a bit of variety... plus you gotta have the peace of mind that you'll still be able to get the job done if your right hand is ever out of action for a while

Gotta say I became much more proficient when I had re-constructive surgery on my right shoulder 18 months ago
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Gotta say I became much more proficient when I had re-constructive surgery on my right shoulder 18 months ago

The fact that your career is actually "professional masturbator" probably doesn't hurt either. Wankman.
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lol, relationships.

naww... what's wrong with relationships.

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naww... what's wrong with relationships.

They get in the way of masturbation.

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So your missus is cool with you whacking off to porn in front of her?

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They get in the way of masturbation.

I'm pretty sure that's not MissAnge's opinion on the matter

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I'm pretty sure that's not MissAnge's opinion on the matter

Maybe it's not just boys she gives the flick to?

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she does sound like a bit of a man eater, doesn't she

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Better off being single at the moment. Only get annoyed when people ask why I'm not seeing anyone, like it's expected of me to be doing so.

Lol try telling your mum that her only offspring is unlikely to ever give her grandchildren, it's not that much fun.
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Lol try telling your mum that her only offspring is unlikely to ever give her grandchildren, it's not that much fun.

I cop it from my folks as well, especially being the eldest of two.

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she does sound like a bit of a man eater, doesn't she

That's twice this year I've been called that. Hardly the case!

Lately, I'm surrounded by some pretty bad examples of relationships (no trust, respect etc). So currently enjoying the drama-free single life
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That's twice this year I've been called that. Hardly the case!

I made the same comment (with tongue in cheek) about bizzy, you both have that kinda internet persona, but I'm sure you're both lovely in person.

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Lately, I'm surrounded by some pretty bad examples of relationships (no trust, respect etc). So currently enjoying the drama-free single life

Definitely an upside to it. I don't miss the drama and arguments.

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